i am a very heavy sleeper. so, by nature, i would probably not hear it if a BG were to break into our house. my wife is s very light sleeper, and by nature she can hear a pin drop on the other side of the house. this being the case. if a BG were to break in, i know my wife would hear it. she is just now, after 7 years, coming around to the idea that having a gun in the house is a good idea. she will not, however, go to the range, talk about guns longer than 20 minutes, and most of al, ever shoot a gun - her words. this leads me to my dilemna; being such a heavy sleeper, i am sure to have the intruder get the drop on me, and then even if i had my gun under my pillow, which i would never do, i would still be at a huge disadvantage. i am absolutely not in any way negating the need for a gun, but if i am unconscious, how is the gun useful? the way our house is situated, there is no good way to maneuver around a corner and order the BG to the ground without leaving yourself in the open, exposed to possible gunfire. i was thinking about velcroing a holster to the head of the mattress, rightup against the wall, so i could slip my hand into it and grab the gun right away, but our daughter is old enough to climb up onto the mattress now, so that idea is out. do any other heavy sleepers with familes starting out like me, have any advice?