Here's another not a female responder.
Off body carry is a very chancy thing fraught with peril.
Criminals are drawn to purses,day planners, and other such methods of off body carry the way flies flock to garbage. They home in on the bag fast and make off with it if possible. Now the purse and gun are gone.
This can bring on legal problems as well as a vicious criminal now has your gun to do with it what he/she will. That's also a ethical and moral issue in itself if anyone gets hurt or killed with the stolen gun.
Better methods of carry abound. Examples:
Confidant Shirts by Kramer Leather keep the gun and spare ammo tucked away in pockets sewn into the side on each side. There's a female and male version made.
Bianchi and Galco make belly bands that hold the gun and ammo under the clothing and out of sight. Mas Ayoob has recorded such a female doing this with her Kahr MK-9.
Fanny packs made by the holster makers can take the place of a purse under some circumstances. Doesn't work for everywhere, but is an alternative.
.5.11 and other tactical clothing makers have shirts,vests,pants,jeans, nd other clothing that has holster pockets for the gun and spare ammo.
Bianchi,Galco, and other holster makers do cater to the women to a certain extent.
www.thunderwear.com has concealment holsters for women also.
These all hide the gun without printing being a factor.
Material that is light,will cling, or is thin will show off the gun eventually.
Clothing with tailored vents needs to be avoided like the plague.
These are all just general observations .
As a source of info on women's holsters,the makers, and more info than any person can read at one sitting,
www.corneredcat.com is the palce to go.
www.womenandguns.com is another source.
This is not to say off body carry is totally wrong in any way. Just thought I'd point out the risks and some general alternatives.