Loosening up has nothing to do with it. I am currently rocking my sick 2 year old in my lap as I type this. Having 3 kids means the only chance I get to play on the internet is when one is climbing on me. I have clicked links with language, violence, or inappropriate dress with them seeing it. I have learned not to click links without descriptions because of it.
Truth be told, I enjoy cussing, violence, and inappropriate dress, but when you little kids running around you have to be careful what you pull up online. Some humor is not fit for kids. It is not too much to ask to give a description. It is more to it than having a sense of humor. Seeing as how you are a man that has - Proverbs 25:24 as his signature, I hope you can respect that