sorry this is a noob question but i've been buying bullets and notice they come in different grain. i know it has to do with the mass/fineness of the powder what does it mean exactly? higher the number means finer? burn faster? i bought two types of bullets in .40 s.w. one 135 grain and the other 160 grain. what's the difference? one of the bullets just happens to be almost 3 times more expensive than the other.