My wife was hesitant at first, but a foiled home invasion brought her around. If I have to leave with my carry sidearm, she doesn't like being there alone without the firearm she tried-out at a range, but none may be found; s&w bodyguard .38 special.
My long gun is there, she has shot it at an outdoor range, but for some reason unknown to her or me, it scares the 'ell out of her. She would not touch it, unless her life depended on it (I hope).
It's really odd, because the s&w bodyguard .38 special has far worse recoil.
I don't know, maybe if the long gun had pink furniture, or something...