He died the way he lived — helping others

Status
Not open for further replies.

MaterDei

Member
Joined
Sep 23, 2003
Messages
3,528
Location
Central Texas
http://www.chron.com/cs/CDA/ssistory.mpl/page1/3188695


He died the way he lived — helping others
Icehouse owner Horace Allen "Bully" Paul, known for his generous heart and vibrant spirit, again came to someone's aid Tuesday night. The act cost him his life
By PAIGE HEWITT
Copyright 2005 Houston Chronicle

Family Photo
Horace Allen “Bully†Paul, owner of Paul’s Ice House on Telephone Road, was killed in a shootout with a man who, police say, had broken into the home of one of Paul’s employees. Paul is shown with his grandson, Kyle Michael Paul.
Friends of Horace Allen Paul trickled in to his southeast side icehouse Wednesday, mourning the sudden and violent loss of their beloved "Bully," and sharing memories of the spirited former Marine, a gun-toting giver who was "always there."

Paul's yearning to help others cost him his life Tuesday night, when he grabbed his pistol and barreled into the home of a female employee after she ran from the house screaming about an armed intruder inside.

Several shots were fired and both men died at the scene, investigators said. Houston homicide Sgt. Darcus Shorten said it looked like the two men fired at each other simultaneously.

The other man was identified by authorities as John Lewis, 48, of Pearland. Police and friends said the woman knew Lewis but the relationship between the two was unclear Wednesday.

The female employee, whose identity was not released, declined to talk about the incident Wednesday.

Friends, who described the 57-year-old Paul as larger than life — one who had previously shot a robber and then kept one of the man's teeth on display at the icehouse — said he would have wanted to die a hero.
map

"He went down fighting," said Dennis Young, who owns a muffler shop across the street from Paul's Ice House in the 10000 block of Telephone Road.

"I think he would have wanted it that way," Young said. "He wouldn't have wanted an accidental death or to have died standing on a street corner. He died helping someone."

Friends said Paul drove his employee to her home in the 400 block of Dillon about 7:45 p.m. because she feared for her safety after being harassed by a man she knew.

When the two arrived at the house, the woman went inside and was startled by Lewis, who had broken in and was holding her husband's pistol, Shorten said.

The woman ran out for help, and Paul, who was licensed to carry a firearm, ran into the home, Shorten said.

Helping anyone in need defined his life, said friends, who described Paul as the kind of man "who made you feel safe."

Paul's brother is Houston Fire Department arson division chief Roy Paul. His sister, Pat Banks, was the former chief investigator for the Harris County Medical Examiner's office. Neither could be reached for comment Wednesday.

Tim Miller, a close friend and founder of Texas Equusearch, said Paul had been a valuable and generous supporter of the nonprofit the last three years.

"Bully was our hero," Miller said. "He was always there for us. I don't know how we can replace him. Part of Equusearch is gone."

Paul often used his motor home as a watch command for Equusearch's local and out-of-state missing-person searches, group members said.

"When someone was missing, Bully dropped everything and said, 'Where do you need me?' " said the group's search director, Fred Niday.

Paul often lent his four-wheelers to the cause and provided food and drinks for volunteers searching for missing children and adults.

"We tried to pay him, but he wouldn't take any money," Miller said.

Paul also was known as a big buyer at Equusearch fund-raising auctions.

In 2003, Paul paid $800 for a CD of Laura's Song, produced in memory of Miller's 16-year-old daughter, who was murdered in 1986.

Over the years, Paul also pulled together last-minute fund-raisers for the families of police officers killed in the line of duty.

And whether it was a customer down on his luck, or an employee short on cash to pay for a car repair, Paul was always ready to pull out his wallet — and never expected to be repaid.

"He was a giver," Miller said.

Wednesday at the icehouse in the 10000 block of Telephone Road — a family-owned fixture in southeast Houston since the early 1950s — "Bully Paul" stories were swapped amid tears and laughter.

There were the deep-sea fishing trips featuring lots of cold beer.

There was the time in Las Vegas when Paul went to shove about $10,000 in blackjack winnings into his back pocket only to find the cash had landed on the ground instead, Young said. A few days later, he did the same thing.

"We laughed hard," Young said.

And, of course, everyone knew that "Bully," — who got his nickname because he was "mean as hell" as a kid, his cousin, Steve Martin, said — had shot more than one man during his life.

A few years ago, Equusearch member Barbara Gibson said, a man walked into the icehouse and tried to hold it up.

When the man's gun jammed, Paul pulled out his own pistol and shot the robber. After officials cleaned up the scene, Paul found one of the man's teeth on the floor.

He kept it in his trophy case at the icehouse.

"That man should have known better than to come in here," Gibson said, laughing through tears.

Paul, who was "completely devastated" when one of his sons died about two months ago, leaves behind a son and a young grandson.

The funeral will be at 10 a.m. Saturday at Forest Park East Cemetery and Chapel in League City. Visitation is 5 to 7 p.m. Friday.
 
It is unfortunate that such a stand up guy had to lose his life to a dirt bag house robber. But if there was no one in the house after the female ran out to get help, why not call the local police to handle the situation.

Is her TV set and fish tank worth his life?
I think he would still be alive had he not rushed head long in to a situation that did not warrant it.

after she ran from the house screaming about an armed intruder inside.
the woman ran out for help, and Paul, who was licensed to carry a firearm, ran into the home

Why?
 
Before you start bashing the guy as being stupid-

if you weren't raised here you probably won't understand. Call us Texans stupid or having Audie Murphy syndrome whatever, but we hate to wait for backup....
You never know what could happen if you hesitate, think of what went down inside Columbine HS while the LE moved at a turtles pace. Yeah, sometimes you get killed over rushing in but that's the individuals choice.
CT
 
Last edited:
Call us Texans stupid or having Audie Murphy syndrome whatever, but we hate to wait for backup....
:D

Great reply, CenTex. I've know a few Texans, and they were certainly stand-up guys. Not stupid in any way, either.

RIP, Mr. Paul.

TM
 
A brave man - no doubt who deserves our respect for a life well lived.

His action however reminds me of a line from the movie Top Gun: The government regrets to inform you that your sons are dead because they were stupid.

The woman was out of the house and safe. There was no good reason for an entry into the house. CCW is for defense of self and others. There was no immediate threat and no reason for the gentleman to enter the woman's home. Depart the scene to a safe distance and call the police and let them do the job they are paid to do.

A life well lived - ended by a stupidly unnecessary act of bravery.
 
I guess the rest of her life will determine whether or not the sacrifice was justified. He was a brave man, by any measure.
 
For once the BG was not going to get a chance to get away. Or to tie up our courts and taxpayers money.

God Bless him for doing what he thought was right.
 
I would hope that although we can respect him for his bravery and willingness to help others, we can still remain objective enough to learn from his mistake and not repeat it ourselves someday. I would rather be a living hero than a dead hero.

JM
 
I'm not going to question why he did what he did. I'm going to applaud the fact that when someone needed help, he put his own safety second and he got involved. A true hero. The lessons to be learned are obvious and don't need to be repeated.

Godspeed Bully, your final act of courage reflects well on you and is keeping with the highest traditions. Once a Marine, ALWAYS a Marine.
 
I would hope that although we can respect him for his bravery and willingness to help others, we can still remain objective enough to learn from his mistake and not repeat it ourselves someday. I would rather be a living hero than a dead hero.

+1

I applaud his intentions, but his application was flawed and in direct contradiction to the tactically defensive situation he was in. There was no longer an threat of imminent serious bodily injury or death (the criteria for the use of deadly force under Texas CHL law). His actions created the situation that resulted in his death - the threat level was relatively low (there was no one in the house but the BG) so they should have hopped back in the truck and driven away, then called the police.

Again, I agree with his motives but he failed to keep an objective view of the tactical situation. Unfortunately he got dead in the process.

RIP, buddy. May your actions will be a lesson to the rest of us.

Brad
 
CENTRALTEXAS
Never in my post did I call him "stupid" although you do call Texans collective "stupid" which I totally disagree with.


if you weren't raised here you probably won't understand. Call us Texans stupid or having Audie Murphy syndrome whatever, but we hate to wait for backup....

And I also am a born and raised Texan, (Carrollton a NE Burb of Dallas). So I don't see where your going with your argument of his death.
"If your not from here you would not understand....."
Only a Texan would do something this stupid, is what your post relays to me. Again, I disagree with your comment.




Werewolf
The woman was out of the house and safe. There was no good reason for an entry into the house. CCW is for defense of self and others. There was no immediate threat and no reason for the gentleman to enter the woman's home. Depart the scene to a safe distance and call the police and let them do the job they are paid to do.


My point EXACTLEY! No life is worth losing in this type of situation, he threw his away for nothing.


Brad Johnson
...his application was flawed and in direct contradiction to the tactically defensive situation he was in. There was no longer an threat of imminent serious bodily injury or death (the criteria for the use of deadly force under Texas CHL law). His actions created the situation that resulted in his death - the threat level was relatively low (there was no one in the house but the BG) so they should have hopped back in the truck and driven away, then called the police.

Very well put. And the point I was trying to make
 
I would hope that although we can respect him for his bravery and willingness to help others, we can still remain objective enough to learn from his mistake and not repeat it ourselves someday. I would rather be a living hero than a dead hero.

+2. At most, he should have watched the house while waiting for the police to arrive. This was not like Columbine. At Columbine, the police were facing active shooters with innocents inside. Standing around waiting for backup and decisions to be made meant more people died. Here, he should have checked with the woman to find out if anyone else was inside, and if not, take cover with a view of the likely exits from the house and wait for the police.
 
I'm of two minds. The emotional side of me says he died the way he wanted to. He took a BG with him. There are worse ways of dying. I'll be sure to hoist a pint in Horace Allen “Bully†Paul's honour. Good idea, bad idea, he made his own decision and died being himself. I respect that. A lot.


The more rational side of my brain says he should have waited outside. My instructors always told me "One thing about heros, they tend to be dead. We're training you to stay alive." One of the hardest aspects of firearms training is to act contrary to one's desires. Sometimes it is not best to "Hey diddle diddle, straight up the middle." A human is worth more than a TV, some CD's and some loose change.
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Back
Top