I dunno. I think in some respects your Brother-in-law may be right.
On a purely theoretical (if somewhat bloodthirsty) basis, I've often thought that a load of shot to the face might be a pretty good "stop the threat" load, "doughnut" pattern notwithstanding.
If it's good enought to kill a rat or snake ("snake loads"), a couple of pellets striking the eyeball would probably end the festivities right there. I think maybe those who rail against the use of these loads are a bit "religious" about it.
Again, this is on a purely theoretical basis, but the assumption seems to be that if you have good aim, the "doughnut hole" will give you a miss. But I'm not that good a shot anyhow, so I figure if I miss my POA, that might be a good thing.
I tried patterning a couple of these loads out of a 6" .357 and at about two yards the pattern was about ten inches in diameter, but there were a substantial number of pellets still going into the "doughnut hole."
Not that I run around the woods much anymore, but I kinda always thought a couple of shot loads to a bear's or a feral dog's face would make that here now dog or bear want to stop.
Your BIL is not the first to think of this by any means, but discussion of these as defense loads always seem to end up with the bulleted round crowd getting a little doctrinaire about it.
I wonder if Superlite27, when he said:
If someone shot me with ratshot, I'd shoot them with a hollowpoint.
has considered the fact that a #9 or #12 in either one of his eyeballs would probably render him incapable of returning fire with that there now hollowpoint.
Just sayin'.
I think it's one of those hot-button topics, though, and just maybe, just perhaps, just possibly, your BIL may have some solid reasoning behind his decision... I don't know about having
three of them as first rounds, though.
Maybe just one.
Terry, 230RN