hobby switching, how long between cycles? (Long!!)

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caz223

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I tend to get 'tired' of hobbies and go in 7 to 10 year cycles, something like this:
1. Realizing how much money I spent in one particular hobby (That could have been used in another!).
2. Realizing that if my entire expenditure had been in the other hobby category, I would have completed that phase of that hobby, and progressed in a different direction.
3. As seasons change, forcing near stagnation in one hobby, the other hobby would have been at it's peak, screaming for my attention.
4. My income decreases, my hours decrease (Giving me more spare time, and less money to work with.), or conditions at my job change, making me unusually tired, sore, or fatigued, too fatigued to enjoy all of my hobbies at once, forcing me to choose between them.

My hobbies are alll expensive, and all comsume lots of my time.
They include computing: (Building computers, overclocking, downloading, googling, hotrodding friends' computers, at last count I had 5 computers, 3 of which I actually use.)
Reptiles: Turtles, snakes, etc. I have many turtles and snakes, and have been trying to downsize my collection, am down to a dozen turtles, and a dozen snakes. However, that is not a very good description of how much time they take. I have, for example, a sulcata tortoise that will eventually get to 200+ pounds, eat me out of house and home, and require desert conditions in michigan (Or wherever I choose to live), year-round. As you can assume, care for this magnificent member of God's creation takes much of my time.

Guns, shooting, reloading, etc
I have a nice collection of rifles, shotguns, revolvers, and autoloaders that get shot regularly, and need to get fed regularly. Making another of my hobbies, reloading, absolutely necessary, my dillon gets the least of my time of any of my hobbies, and that's why I have it. I'd rather be shooting.
I have recently added up the money spent in reloading, shooting, and acquiring my collection, and am absolutely amazed that I'm not bankrupt at this point.

Drinking: Honestly, a hobby, but my least expensive one lately, I constructed a refrigerated keg system at home to save time and money.

Foosball: I have a tornado table, and play regularly, but have fallen out pf practice lately. I used to be good.

Add a new one, hovercrafting.
I build a hovercraft when I was 19 or so, in conjunction with a technical school program.
My goodness that was fun. My teachers provided the materials, and I did the research, and assembled it. It was a piece of junk, and I wasn't allowed to keep it, but I shure did have fun flying it around for a few weeks.
I recently remember having fun building it and bombing around in it.
It occured to me recently that the amound of money I spent in the last two years alone on guns and reloading, I could have constructed a hovercraft 10 times more expensive, and better, and flew, stored, crashed, repaired, and maintained it for at least a year.

It looks like all my current hobbies are going to get evaluated and re-assigned a priority.
At very least, it will be a temporary re-assignment, at most I would quite possibly only buy other guns by selling current unused pieces, but I feel the winds of change starting to make themselves known.

Anybody else going through this?
One of my goals in life has been to keep it simple, yet it is getting very complicated.

Sorry for the long post, but it seems that I am going through a turning point.

Please feel free to repond to this, even if you think that you haven't anything to add, I am looking for input, and feel that just about everybody would have gone through something similar at least once in their lives.
How to restore balance, or branching out into other hobbies.
(BTW, I do feel that this is gun-related, even though maybe not as specifically as gun-related as most postings.)
 
Yeah!! A topic very close to my heart.
I try to take up a new sport every year or so. It works out more like every year and a half.
A few years ago it was mountain biking, and last year it was kayaking. Somewhere in the middle I took up Tae Kwon Do, but I hurt my knees, so that was that.

This year it seems to be shooting!

I should really get more organized about planning these--maybe one new outdoor hobby and one new indoor hobby at a time. Since I got into shooting I've started fooling around with optics a lot.

As far as $$ goes, I've seen big differences in hobbies. With the biking, you probably get a lot more for your $ and for your prep time than you do with paddling. However, deep down I think I like the paddling better. Especially since there are no hills where I'm living now! :cuss:

I haven't figured out how to work this so that I keep up my skills at old hobbies. That's one thing I would really like to work in to the program. AND I would like to find more ways to have my hobbies teach me other skills that I need--maybe acting, or public speaking, or budgeting (!) and organization(!!)
 
Anybody else going through this?
Probably, but at my age its called middle age crazy. :D

You married? Hey try two wives within a decade...that'll both curb and re-define the term "expensive". Talk about a hobby...and changing...whew!

Always liked guns, have always shot guns.
I did the motorcross dealie, raced cars (sanctioned and err umm street version), various gun competitions,( made enough to stay shooting) golf, flyfishing, fishing in general, horse racing (spectator, actually made money at this one too, go figure). Piddled with woodworking, built a house...finally one day, decided since I was single, had spent 35 yrs in a business raised in, ...to go to college. Told you it was middle age crazy. I have socks older than some classmates, Heck I have guns and ammo older than classmates...and probably some instructors.

Flat broke,old single guy going to school having fun. As ART said, I didn't grow up, I just got bigger. :)
 
As for hobbies vs. skills, I try to incorporate them into my job, if it allows.
At my job recently, I joined a task force, a comittee whose job is to tackle a challenge that usually changes one's mindset, and way of thinking.
All promising task force members were briefed in operations, decision making, and the kepner-tregoe process.
It was very rewarding, and definately put me in a better position to understand some of the choices that I've made in the past, good and bad.
As for budgeting, and organization, I can't ever seem to 'bring them home'.
They stay at work, and my life at home is chaotic at best.
I did seem to get better at public speaking through task forces and committees, and still need to do much work on my presentations.
 
I haven't got to middle age yet, but I shure ain't growin' up anytime soon.
As for women, I try to stick with attainable goals, and to me that leaves women in the 'impossible, or extremely difficult at best' category.
I was almost married at 20, and think I hit my head for the last time, and never tried that again.
As for the 'hit my head' comment, it's nothing against women, it's me, thinking I'd figured them out, and learning the error of my ways later.
 
I really like that other things just suddenly grab my interest and I am off and running for awhile! Scuba diving, skydiving, skiing, politics, then traditional archery then clays, birds, handguns-the shotgunning and birds all just in the past year! (Just "something that I always wanted to try" so I did and I love it)! Not enough time for any of them but I will spend money that I don't really have (though not completely foolish or irresponsible as I am making good money) with the idea that at 46, I am really running out of time altogether so bump up, pay attention and REALLY ENJOY life!!!

My friend Bob never spent money on much of anything and was an always undertipping the waitress kinda guy (I made up for it). Dead now. Heart attack. 45.

I realize that I am all over the place with this post but I know guys who focus on ONE hobby, torture themselves with lessons and practice and never seem to be really just enjoying themselves, then get depressed if the season or an injury stops them form participating in some way. Then they die. I guess what I am saying is that it's all good. Don't live under "the tyranny of the should" feel that you HAVE to complete or master anything when it comes to having fun! You don't HAVE to have a favorite or best, and that something that is worth doing is worth doing badly! Enjoy!
 
Try to make all your hobbies flow together as if it were cohesive being.

My hobbies include:

Guns (of course)
Leatherwork (gotta make holsters and gear)
Jeeps (gotta haul the stuff, also fun to build new racks for guns, hunting)
Metal work (have to build targets/stands, stuff for Jeep)
Reloading (OK, i did this strictly for economics)
bicycling (gets hauled on the jeep, need to stay in shape)
Raising cattle (.....uhhhh, gotta eat so can continue to do others:D )
Horses ( have to chase the cows on something, good hunting vehicle too)
Motorcycles (chase cattle when the horse is down)
Fly fishing (what else am I gonna do with all the fly rods?)
Hunting (its what I tell my wife the guns are for)

Actually all these evolved over time, some have complemented the others well. I try not to take on new hobbies unless I can justify it to some or all of the others. (amazing how easy that is to do)
 
Good on ya all!

Men after my own heart. As I like to say, "I'm not a middle-aged guy, I'm a sickly, funny-looking ten-year-old with a learning disability!"

Seriously, I believe that learning new things tends to keep the mind young, and I think the scientists agree.
 
So there's a possibility that I could be having a mid-life crisis at 33?
***??
I thought that happened at 39.....
What's next, a hip fracture?
People around me seem to think that I'm senile or have old timers' syndrome...
I'm too young to feel this old...
 
My interests also wanes and then rekindles. Overall, they're consistent and I won't change.

1/1200 or 1/1250 scale model ship collection - started back around '74 and have hundreds (if not a thousand plus) today.

Airplanes, tanks, guns, in short, military history - hundreds of books attest to it.

firearms - interest is readily apparent. From flintlock to full auto.

Sports - I do drop those. Fencing - too old to recover from a riposte. (Can somebody help me up?). Archery - love it but it's been years. Cycling - loved it as a kid and have had a bicycle for five years now (2nd childhood toy). Shooting - never outgrew that.
 
I have many interests too...

the last few years I havent been spending much on my firearms hobby only
to buy ammo for a day at the range, no new guns since 99" during the Y2K
rush. Ive been thinning out my collection and only keeping my favorite guns.

other hobbies:

military history and collecting
living history events
trying all kinds of foreign foods at different restaurants
cooking
running and staying in good physical condition [all year around]
hanging out at Barnes & Nobles to read books
outdoors & camping
shopping for nice clothes
watching good movies and collecting DVD's
traveling and exploring new places
hiking
collecting action figures [gi joe]

I enjoy a variety of hobbies and do a little bit of everything...:D
 
Captain Scarlet, have you even done cowboy action shooting, or a civil war re-enactment?
It sounds like you might have a little too much fun doing it, if you already haven't....
 
I've GOT to jump in on this one....

#1 hobby - collecting, shooting guns, reloading and hunting.

#2 Plastic models - mostly 1/32 scale aircraft and a few autos.

#3 Restoring my 1966 Mustang GT fastback, hence; ScottsGT
( did I mention that there is a '66 'vert under the deck)

#4 Grilling on a smoaker. Kind of ties into the hunting!

#5 Diecast auto collection in 1/18th scale.

(edit):
#6 Almost forgot, I also have a Honda CT-70 I'm in the
slow process of rebuilding for the kids.

But right now, almost everything is aside while I'm remodeling my bathroom and then the kitchen is next. :(
 
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Yup, I tend to lose interest once I feel I've mastered something. Move on to the next thing or put it away for a time and pick it back up. Never holds my interest as long the second time around. I think I am just trying to reassure myself I haven't lost my touch.
 
caz223,

no, Ive never done any Cowboy action shooting or Civil War re-enacting,
but I think WWII re-enacting would be fun, since I collect WWII gear.

Ive been to "Old West" type living history events where they do the shootouts with there black powder guns in the streets with blanks.

I have also seen a Civil War battle re-encatment once, but never participated.

I enjoy going to museums and old civil war forts.
 
funny you should ask...i was into collecting rocks,minerals then into ancient artifacts.that got old after 10 years then into oil painting and back into minerals and artifacts.had over 200 arrowheads in a case along with various native american tools and pottery - a collection of luminus minerals filled a corner with an ultra violet lamp.got into hiking and then hunting and fishing.fishing became boring(the people i went fishing with either passed on or always had an excuse not to go)frog gigging and hunting turtles and carp with a bow was fun for awhile,had a couple nice bows and some custom made arrows-still have bits here and there of past hobbies but most are gone.the varmit rifles and plinking guns are the only hobbies that have stuck..now just enjoy plinking and varmit shooting.
 
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