Hold your stomachs--toy gun article

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There is one single disturbing trend in these "toy gun" articles that have been popping up since the 90's. It's the meme that gun/war/cops&robbers play is "bad". And that it's treated as an assumption by almost all sides. (Assuming even more than one side is presented.)

The fact that this article points out kids (boys mostly) will fashion guns and swords out of most anything they can find, and that toy weapons are found in the archeological records all the way into pre-history makes this article almost a breath of fresh air in comparison to what's come before…

Frankly, by denying such play, you're only going to make the problem worse. Instead of learning to channel aggressive instincts in constructive ways, such as fighting for good, freedom, or to protect the weak and victimized, you merely send the message to young boys that you consider a core part of their being as "wrong".

Yeppers, Soccer-Mommy, you've just told Jr. you wish he were something other than a stereotypical boy. You can dismiss it as hyperbole, but Monkeyleg's comments on castration aren't too far off the mark, psychologically speaking. By characterizing guns and war-play as "perverse" you are sending the message to your children that you think their masculinity is "perverse" too.

Taking away toy guns and swords from little boys over fears of "violence" is like taking away dolls from little girls over fears of "teen pregnancy"...

As a side issue, I think another one of the underlying assumptions of the idea that war/gun play with boys is "bad", is actually an egalitarian instinct on the part of the liberals and the mainstream mass media. To do otherwise might mean they'd have to acknowledge there is something truly "different" between the feral existence of so many in the inner city, vs. the "Americana" of the suburbs and countryside.

It helps them pretend that there's no difference between a suburban upbringing in a two-parent home, and being raised on welfare in the inner city, when all your siblings have different fathers. That way, the liberal establishment can pretend that Johnny from "Brookfield" has just as much chance of becoming a trigger-happy gang banger as Tyrone from whatever part of town your city's "Martin Luther King Dr." runs through.

Pretending that both have an equal chance winding up as hardened criminals because they played "G.I. Joe" as children is a big part of denying that the "Great Society" the very same liberals helped create isn't to blame for oh so much of the actual problem...
 
Our TV is rarely on, and never on cartoons, so my boys should be free from such bad influences. But guess what -- the six year old still goes around the house shooting or stabbing, with imaginary or play weapons, everything except his mother (Dad's ok, because he can shoot back).

And the fifteen year old seems to have survived the transition to real guns -- we leave for a competitive shoot in a week, and I'm concerned that he's going to win the case of beer traditionally given to the high score for the weekend -- it's going to look bad if he beats me, wins the beer, but then I confiscate it due to his youth and drink it myself.
 
When I grew up:
They weren't afraid of kids playing "gun games" at school, or anywhere else. They didn't have "zero tolerance". Nor did they have school shootings.

This status quo that was in effect during my childhood also worked for my parents', grandparents' and great-grandparents' childhoods as well.

Now we have:
Adults afraid of kids playing "gun games" at school, and at home. They now have "zero tolerance". Children's play is restricted by controlling fearmongers, what are the results? School shootings? :eek:

Kids are kids, they don't change. What changes is the society they grow up in.
 
Oh, heck, when I grew up we played cowboys and Indians....later on we became Boy Scouts and earned the Marksmanship Merit Badge...after we took the safety course. Then the horrors set in....High School. We actually carried our guns to school and stored them in our lockers. We were on the rifle team, which happened to be a varsity sport. And, for those that were not able to buy their own guns, the school owned 7 which we shared. How did we ever turn out as non-killers is beyond me....and the school owning 7 rifles of their own......oh my, how the world has changed.
 
I actually felt like the article made a decent point about allowing kids to create their own guns out of cardboard tubes, LEGOs, whatever - instead of buying them replicas or guns from a TV show or something. If you buy a kid a toy gun, he's got to shoot somebody or play with another toy. Give him a box of LEGOs and he can shoot somebody, conquer the galaxy, defeat evil and rescue appreciative damsels in distress, then shoot somebody else - all in a single afternoon.

Other than taking the hand-wringing Mom seriously, the only major flaw I saw in there was the simple acceptance at face value of the blatantly stupid comments by the so-called expert on gender programming by the media. Anyone who has ever raised a child knows that girls and boys are different, no matter what kind of programming the media gives them. Pretending to take a washed-up feminist seriously in this day and age just makes you look silly.

Levin, however, believes it is much more than genes. "Whatever influence genetics and biological predispositions play, the society is doing so much to escalate and magnify the differences in gender that we can't even answer that question," Levin says.
Translation: "I reject your reality, and substitute my own."
*snork*
 
Taking away toy guns and swords from little boys over fears of "violence" is like taking away dolls from little girls over fears of "teen pregnancy"...

Ooh, that was good.
 
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