I want to ship my handgun up there and I will leave it there with my buddies so I don't have to mess around with it and the airlines. How do I have to ship it? neither of us has an FFL. thanks for your help!
You are transferring a firearm to someone who is a resident of another state.
Yes, I know you think you're just storing it with him. That doesn't matter. Possession is 9/10th of the law here (well, 10/10ths really) and you can't just give a firearm (or ship one) to someone in another state.
You could ship it to YOURSELF, at his address. He may not open it. You'll have to do that when you get there. Once you're done with your visit, you'd need to ship it to yourself at your own address. You can't leave it there, as that would be an illegal transfer of a firearm across state lines. As Tom points out, this is a practical problem at the moment due to the common carriers' policies.
About the only way for a friend to "hold it for you" is for you to do a legal transfer of that firearm through a dealer (in HIS state, since it's a handgun) and he then is lawfully receiving it. Might as well just ship it to your pal's local dealer and let them do the transfer. Of course, then it isn't "yours" but you can borrow it when you're in the state. The best way to do that is to have YOUR local dealer ship it for you to his local dealer, as your dealer can take advantage of much cheaper rates than you can.
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Of course, the most practical way is to simply (VERY simply, and easily) fly with the gun. It's no big deal and saves so much time and effort and all the knotty problems of transferring and shipping.
Just read up on how to fly with a gun and do it. Nothin' to it.