Tolerance of felt recoil is kind of a personal thing. Some people don't consider 44 Magnum a punishing cartridge to shoot. I am not one of those people
I have an 38 Special LCR, and I've shot it with 110 grain +P. It kicked hard enough to smart, but it didn't give me a flinch, and I think I could practice with it enough to make it a reasonable "carry" load. 158 gr +P would be worse, and I would not want to shoot it unless nothing else was available. Also, my LCR has a 2-inch barrel, and I do not think that 158 gr +P would perform well from it, but that is off-topic from what was asked.