Get a "Stoney Point" or other bullet comparator and see if the bullet is seating to the same lenght from case base to the ogive. This is the critical setting if you are trying to get a set distance from the leade or want to see if the bullet is seating the same depth in the case. The case to tip lenght is only important when seeing if the cartridge fits in the magazine, nothing else.
Bullets vary in lenght/geometery, and the seating cup should seat off the ogive not the tip. If your seater does hit the tip as some bullet designs allow, drill it out a hair deeper to prevent contact.