Hemicuda
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My Girlfriend (capitalized because she has BEEN my Girlfirend for over 15 YEARS... we aren't married 'cause SHE doesn't need a piece of paper to show she loves me!) KNOWs guns and I are and always will be well-aquainted...
As long as my debts are met, and there's a solid house over our head, then I am FREE to spend discresionary income as I see fit...
she doesn't like "baubles" shoes, or clothes all that much... she REALLY is LOW maintainence... and a GREAT woman... but she ALSO doesn't like to see me spend my "fun money" on HER...
that said, she was DEFINITELY a fence-sitter when I met her... she had shot with her father as a kid... but was NOT into guns, nor did she want to own any...
NOW, 15 years later, there is a section of the wun-vault that SHE took over... guns that USED to sit with their counterparts in MY part of the vault, now seem to reside in HER section... (and dangit, HER section is growing, while mine shrinks...)
recently (in the last year or two) she exprtessed interest in OWNING a few... she wanted one "like she shot with her dad" (turns out it was an Apache Black Remington Nylon 66) then it was "one of those 1022 thingies (I have 3, two with bull barrels and heavy stocks, one international) but "not all built up and heavy"... into the vault went a 10/22 youth model (she's short)... then it was a ".22 pistol to play with"... so a Ruger MK II 4 7/8" NON target stainless... ALL good and great... she has some of her own... HERS, bought for her, NOT one I got for me...
I also build/rebuild cars (MoPar cars) and she FINALLY a few years ago mentioned wanting a '53 MG TD... I found a basket-case '53 MG TD for cheap, and gave it to her as a present... SHE has bought ALL the parts HERSELF and done 90% of the work... (some I had to show her how) it is drivable, looks pretty nice, and is about 90% done... ALL HERS...
The trick is, I SLOWLY brought her into cars, shooting and gun owning... NOW she has a hobby... she even goes out to the yard and shoots when I'm not there sometimes...
I am SURE that if I spent all the money I do on cars, guns and stuff for shooting, and she DIDN'T have some hobby (thankfully it IS cars and shooting!) then she might resent all the fun... and all the money I waste... (and YES, I waste alot... the only car worth more than I have into it is the 'Cuda... and that's only 'cause I've owned it for 24 years, and did all the restoration MYSELF!)
This year, I spent more on guns and ammo for myself than HER entire taxable income... (she had a terrible year) and I didn't get a SINGLE complaint from her...
BEAR 71 - Your SO has GOT to get a hobby that isn't "house related" or you are just in for problems in other areas... the gun thing is a symptom, NOt the problem...
As long as my debts are met, and there's a solid house over our head, then I am FREE to spend discresionary income as I see fit...
she doesn't like "baubles" shoes, or clothes all that much... she REALLY is LOW maintainence... and a GREAT woman... but she ALSO doesn't like to see me spend my "fun money" on HER...
that said, she was DEFINITELY a fence-sitter when I met her... she had shot with her father as a kid... but was NOT into guns, nor did she want to own any...
NOW, 15 years later, there is a section of the wun-vault that SHE took over... guns that USED to sit with their counterparts in MY part of the vault, now seem to reside in HER section... (and dangit, HER section is growing, while mine shrinks...)
recently (in the last year or two) she exprtessed interest in OWNING a few... she wanted one "like she shot with her dad" (turns out it was an Apache Black Remington Nylon 66) then it was "one of those 1022 thingies (I have 3, two with bull barrels and heavy stocks, one international) but "not all built up and heavy"... into the vault went a 10/22 youth model (she's short)... then it was a ".22 pistol to play with"... so a Ruger MK II 4 7/8" NON target stainless... ALL good and great... she has some of her own... HERS, bought for her, NOT one I got for me...
I also build/rebuild cars (MoPar cars) and she FINALLY a few years ago mentioned wanting a '53 MG TD... I found a basket-case '53 MG TD for cheap, and gave it to her as a present... SHE has bought ALL the parts HERSELF and done 90% of the work... (some I had to show her how) it is drivable, looks pretty nice, and is about 90% done... ALL HERS...
The trick is, I SLOWLY brought her into cars, shooting and gun owning... NOW she has a hobby... she even goes out to the yard and shoots when I'm not there sometimes...
I am SURE that if I spent all the money I do on cars, guns and stuff for shooting, and she DIDN'T have some hobby (thankfully it IS cars and shooting!) then she might resent all the fun... and all the money I waste... (and YES, I waste alot... the only car worth more than I have into it is the 'Cuda... and that's only 'cause I've owned it for 24 years, and did all the restoration MYSELF!)
This year, I spent more on guns and ammo for myself than HER entire taxable income... (she had a terrible year) and I didn't get a SINGLE complaint from her...
BEAR 71 - Your SO has GOT to get a hobby that isn't "house related" or you are just in for problems in other areas... the gun thing is a symptom, NOt the problem...
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