My intent was not to "fish" for any kind of gruesome details. My original thought was that everyone has probably done a lot of research on the internet to support their choice of caliber, mostly based on ballistic charts, one shot stop likeliness charts, etc. I thought that the best way to find out would be to find situations where the "rubber me the road" and see how a round actually performed in its intended design, nothing more nothing less.
In regards to your post, though, I do have to admit that for a short while after posting this thread, I did start having regrets, based on fear of that kind of perception from other readers. Even to the point of considering asking a moderator to just go ahead and shut it down for me. However since then, I saw several responses that were on topic and helpful.
If I did offend anyone by asking my original question I apologize, it was not my intent to ask people to drudge up events that they would most likely rather forget.