If you don't like safetys don't use them. I can never understand why this presents a problem for some folks. I have 1 gun other than my 1911's with a safety. The lc9, and I leave it off when of of my house. I usually have it on when my grandkids are over,4 of them, 1-9yrs old. As I won't go unarmed. My lc9 stays in a holster "sticky" in a private place, but in the 1 in a million chance a kid got in my waist or grabbed my holster, it's a second thing they would have to circumvent before firing the gun, which at their age would be difficult if not impossible. if not for that I would have to unchamber it. which is more dangerous should someone come crashing in. Scince they are all girls and their parents hate guns, it's never brought up.I am not changing a phsycologists mind on this subject.
I think there are a lot of single guys in here who like me when I was single, didn't have to worry about little people wandering through the house. They get into everything, all my stuff is in the safe except 1 that's on me, whenever they are around.