Seriously, with regard to #3, I have been doing this for about 30 years and still manage to feel like a complete beginner, at least on occasion. For the most part, though, I go into a casting session expecting near-perfection, and am surprised when it doesn't happen.
If I could go back in time to give my younger self a pep talk, it would go something like
1) Use a known alloy. A lot of the wheel weight/range scrap/this-friend-of-mine-has-this-stuff stuff worked great. Some of it didn't, and I blamed myself. Now that I have been at it for a while, I have the confidence to understand that some of the junk that ended up in my pot simply could not be made into good bullets.
2) Get a thermometer. Seriously. If you are guessing at your temperature, you are guessing at everything. Spend the twenty bucks.
3) Now that you have a thermometer, don't be afraid of heat. Run the pot at 800 to 850 degrees. The worst possible outcome is frosted bullets, which shoot just fine. I'm not actually sure why people try to run the pot as cool as possible. I like shiny bullets as much as the next guy, but alloy at 650 or 700 degrees is just a big old headache.
4) Pre-heat the mold, and soot it. I hate pouring bad bullet after bad bullet to heat the mold. For years I used a heat gun to warm up the mold while the alloy was melting. That works, more or less, as does a hot plate. Eventually I just started dipping the lower front edge of the mold into the molten lead for a couple of minutes. Apparently this violates the warranty on some molds, and it definitely causes some pearl-clutching in certain quarters, but I have been doing it with iron, brass, and aluminum molds for a couple of decades now and have not damaged any of them. After you've got the mold good and hot, use a butane lighter to give a decent coat of soot to the cavities, then start your pours, making sure to leave a good sprue puddle over each cavity.
With all of the above, my rejection rate is in the neighborhood of one percent - and I am picky. There was a time when I would have accepted 100 good bullets for 150 pours, but today I would immediately find that problem and fix it.
Please keep us posted on your progress. With the benefit of all the knowledgeable members here, I am sure you will master this business in no time!
<Edit> Sober, I note that I misread the OP's sentence regarding the number of bullets/pours. So while my point still stands, I acknowledge that it doesn't have anything to do with what the OP wrote.