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To accurately measure the center to center spacing, you need to measure across closely fitting pins or drill rods, and subtract half the diameter of each rod. A caliper measures to plus/minus .001 inch.
You said:
>I can see that the cross pin is almost, but not quite, touching the radius on the lower lug. It (the cross pin) fits nicely into the area at the bottom of the feet.<
That's a pretty good fit, Salty. The barrel is riding the link a little, but doesn't lock on the link. If the amount of "ride' at the lug radius is within .003 inch or so, you can get the barrel off the link by elongating the top of the hole a little...carefully.
The next thing to check is the barrel linkdown and drop timing. Remember the .015 inch clearance at .250 inch of rearward slide travel. You also need to make sure that the vertical impact surface in the frame is stopping the barrel instead of the link. If you've got the clearance between the top of the barrel and the slide, you can stand pat for now.
To make sure that the link isn't stopping the barrel due to a short link...vertical impact surface located too far rearward...or lower lug located too far forward...do this:
Assemble the gun, leaving the slidestop arm hanging vertically. Lock the slide back and push the barrel all the way down and back firmly. if the slidestop arm will swing freely, you're golden. If it's tight, you've got a problem with one of the above areas. If there's just TINY bit of bind, you're probably okay...but no more than it takes to move the arm with just a light flick of a fingernail...about the same force that you'd use to tickle a baby's nose. If the arm will move with that little bit of force, it's probably okay.