Thanks 918 and jimmyk... I believe you helped me solve this...I hope
I should've followed my gut on seating die adjustment..I knew better, but I followed the instructions.
After talking to chris at redding he told me to disregard the instructions and set the die as I have with all my other brands of dies, which is the same way you all described. I have the regular full length set and he said sometimes the stem doesn't jive with longer ogive bullets. He is sending me a stem that will cooperate better with this type of bullet. All at no charge. Now, I see why everybody raves about this company..
After work I purchased a cheap box of hornady interlocks and tries them in the die, setting it as I always have and the way explained on this thread. The bullet seated smoothly, though not as deep as I'd like, but it seated. I'll cross my fingers on this one and wait til next week.
I think once I get the new stem next week it should solve the problem. Thanks again for all the patience and feedback.