1) .450b and .458soc uppers will work on your S&W AR lower.
2) Anything can be sold, so anything can be bought - some “complete” uppers come with BCG’s, some don’t. Most are well described, some aren’t.
3) You’ll probably want to buy a complete upper, rather than simply buying only a new barrel, unless you’re committed to converting forever. You’ll need a larger ejection port for these large caliber cartridges so you’d have to alter your current upper. A complete upper should come already cut.
4) Between the .450 and .458, I prefer the .458. Some guys want the option to load inexpensive .451-2” pistol bullets for plinking - I’d rather have a broader selection of appropriate .458” rifle bullets, and a shoulder for head spacing. I ran the .450b for a while, fine cartridge and the difference in the two isn’t significant.