It's not to say that the crime itself is their fault, but that there were definitely common sense things they could have done to avoid the situation in the first place.
Legal and illegal, and maybe even "right" and "wrong", in the end, become black-line distinctions. "
My rights end at the tip of your nose" kind of thinking. However, reality is made up of fuzzier concepts like "consequences." You may be both RIGHT and DEAD -- at the same time. The
blame for a rape (or a stabbing) may rest entirely on the shoulders of the convicted attacker, but the set of circumstances that allowed the attack to happen are rarely
entirely in the attacker's control. To deny this would be to accept that there is no reason to train, no reason to plan, no reason for situational awareness as it's all out of your hands anyway.
Or, as Tom Givens tends to say, "Play stupid games, win stupid prizes."
Back to the OP's subject at hand...
The article is very interesting. There's a LOT wrong with it, and a lot of principles, laws, and what could be teachable moments that are glossed over, misinterpreted, and lost in Mr. Milloy's layman's superficial grasp of the situation. However, he manages to dumb it down in such a way as to deliver a take-home message to his readers that actually DOESN'T hurt us, and can help RKBA a good deal. Many of his readers (heck, some we meet in our own hallowed halls) would not have the patience to follow a deeper explanation and would not like/accept the message they heard if they did. But Milloy's oversimplification delivers the 'hook' that promotes our message, even so.
Just like any political speech -- trying to explain the TRUTH in that format and to a broad audience is a dead cause. Mashing it into a few 'truthy' sound-bites that prod people in the direction we want them to go is the very best we could hope for in this -- and he succeeds!