Here's a whole bunch of good ones from one of our own.
My favorite ,next to Jeff Cooper's, is Walt Rauch's Real-World Survival.He's a guy who's been through it all.
El Tejon May 15th, 2003, 10:59 PM
BOOKS:
IN SELF DEFENSE, Michael T. Izumi
THE PRINCIPLES OF SELF DEFENSE, Jeff Cooper
THE TACTICAL PISTOL, Gabriel Suarez
THE TACTICAL ADVANTAGE, Gabriel Suarez
BLACK'S LAW, Roy Black
IN THE GRAVEST EXTREME, Massad F. Ayoob
THE AYOOB FILES: The Book, Massad F. Ayoob
ON KILLING, Dave Grossman
THE BULLETPROOF MIND, Dave Grossman
REAL-WORLD SURVIVAL, Walt Rauch
TRAINING COURSES (I am assuming pistol based???):
NRA "Personal Protection in the Home" course, you have to crawl before you can walk. (Pre-skul of gunskul).
DHG1, Thunder Ranch (learn not to "poke self in the eye with it", gunhandling skills)
API250, Gunsite Training Academy (ditto)
LFI-I, Lethal Force Institute, without a doubt the greatest value in "gunskuling", LFI-I provides more concentration in the law of self-defense that 3 year of law school and the bar exam (Problem #2, mindset).
Anything with Louis Awerbuck, he makes his bones with "advanced" gunskul stuff, however the man is outstanding (and yet underrated) with beginning students, especially women. He has a natural ability to relate to them and they dig his strong, silent manner.