There is seat first then crimp and that is it, except on the Internet, on the Internet there is seat, crimp and if it don't fit, FORCE IT.! ?
Tony, you are doing the correct thing, in reloading there are no 'do overs' no 'oopsies' except on the Internet.
When seating a bullet without crimp and I am mindlessly seating the bullet for COL I seat, check and seat again, that is when I am mindlessly seating bullets without a crimp. But when thinking about what I am doing I use a depth gage or the dial caliper, then verify by measuring COL.
Again Lyman/Dillon agree, crimping requires skill, Lyman suggest crimping can do more harm than good (search the forms: After loading my rounds they will not chamber?)
Dillon developed their system after years of research, they decided to build their seater dies with out crimping capabilities, they use a separate die for crimping because of the conflict, the bullet is moving down when seated, while seating the bullet the crimp is applied, once the crimp grabs the bullet as the bullet moves down the case has no choice but to bulge or squat, that causes two bad problems,, the effectiveness of the crimp is compromised and the case increases in diameter below the crimp.
F. Guffey