Restraining Orders, Phone, Police, Alarm Systems Worthless...

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Kids hide as mom, friend slain

A defiant ex-boyfriend broke into the woman's house, shooting her and her boyfriend. Police shot and wounded the gunman.

Howie Padilla and Tom Ford, Star Tribune

Teri Lee feared her ex-boyfriend would kill her.

After he was arrested in July and charged with attacking her with two butcher knives, she predicted it.

"Ms. Lee stated she was afraid for her life and was very afraid that the defendant would make bail and come to her house and kill her," an investigator reported in July.

That was two months ago, before Friday morning when, police say, Steven Van Keuren broke into Lee's Washington County home and killed her and a friend. Police shot and wounded him.

Lee's four children, ranging in age from 6 to 12, were home at the time of the shooting about 4:30 a.m., but there are no indications that the suspect went after them.

The 12-year-old daughter recognized the gunman and rushed her younger sister, 6, to a neighbor's house, Washington County Sheriff Steve Pott said.

The older daughter was in the bedroom with Lee, 38, and her boyfriend when she heard the patio door burst open, said Lee's sister, Vicki Seliger Swenson of Minnetonka.

Then the girl spotted him.

His head was shaved, his goatee was gone and he had a big red "X" on his forehead, but she knew it had to be Van Keuren, Seliger Swenson said.

The girl tried to call 911, but Van Keuren ripped the phone from her hand.

The girl fled but couldn't find her two brothers; they were in their closet.

Yelling for help at the neighbor's house, the girls said that Van Keuren was in the home. He had a gun. Shots had been fired. Their brothers, ages 8 and 10, were still in the house.

A Washington County Sheriff's Office SWAT team descended on the West Lakeland Township house. Authorities tried in vain to call into the house.

It took officials about 90 minutes to plan a rescue attempt. The girls helped them, describing the home's layout and what they knew of the events inside.

Police broke into the home, setting off the house alarm. Van Keuren, still armed, confronted the SWAT members, who opened fire, Pott said.

It was unclear how many times or where Van Keuren was hit, Pott said. Van Keuren was taken to Regions Hospital in St. Paul, where he was said to be in serious condition.

Authorities found Lee and her boyfriend dead in a bedroom, Pott said. In another bedroom, they found the boys unharmed.

Pott wouldn't identify the boyfriend, but Seliger Swenson said he was Tim Hawkinson of Maplewood.

Lee and Van Keuren, 46, of River Falls, Wis., were colleagues at 3M Co. and began dating casually about a year after Lee's husband, the father of her four children, died in a 2001 car accident, Seliger Swenson said. Van Keuren also had been a softball teammate of Lee's late husband, Ty Bryant Lee.

"We all feared" Van Keuren, Seliger Swenson said. Lee tried several times to end the relationship, but he would not allow it, her sister said.

A criminal complaint backs up Seliger Swenson's assertions, detailing accusations against Van Keuren related to an attack at Lee's home on Aug. 1.

In that incident, Van Keuren reportedly trapped Lee into a corner with a table and said his life was over because of what she had done, according to the complaint.

The only way they could now be together, he said as he tried to stab her, was if he killed her and "they could be together forever," it said. He later told investigators that he knew he had made a big mistake.

Van Keuren "indicated he was losing his job at 3M and also losing Ms. Lee and that the pressure of both became too much," according to the complaint.

In the July incident, Van Keuren was charged with making terroristic threats, second-degree assault and two counts of first-degree burglary.

At a hearing Aug. 1, Van Keuren's attorney asked that bail be set at $20,000, citing the fact that he had no criminal convictions, 25 years of employment at 3M and experience as a youth program volunteer.

Prosecutors asked that bail be set at $100,000, saying it was warranted because of the ferocity of the attack and the fact that he led police on a chase to his father's River Falls home before he was arrested.

Lee pleaded for bail to be set as high as possible.

"There's no doubt in my mind that he will come back to my home," she told a Washington County district judge. "He's stated that ... he had nothing left to live for and that he had nothing at risk."

Judge Gregory Galler set Van Keuren's bail at $75,000 and included several conditions of release, including that he have no contact with Lee, her home or her family.

Even so, Lee was not convinced she was safe, Seliger Swenson said. She spent $4,000 on a home security system. On some nights, she and her children would stay at Hawkinson's Maplewood home.

Hawkinson and Lee had lived in the same Maplewood neighborhood when they were kids. Hawkinson also worked at 3M, and Seliger Swenson said they began dating last winter.

Hawkinson doted on Lee, and her children adored him, Seliger Swenson said. In light of the incidents with Van Keuren, Hawkinson also had been playing the role of Lee's protector in recent months. He helped install the security system at Lee's home and spared no expense, Seliger Swenson said. The family stayed at Hawkinson's house Wednesday night, after Van Keuren ignored the judge's rules for a second time, Seliger Swenson said.

A few weeks ago, while at work, Lee received an e-mail from Van Keuren's father asking her to meet with his son. Lee turned over the e-mail to police and a warrant was issued for his arrest, Seliger Swenson said. He was never arrested.

Seliger Swenson said one of Lee's daughters was playing volleyball Wednesday at school when she spotted Van Keuren in the stands.

Seliger Swenson said that each knew they saw the other.

"She had enough composure to finish out the last couple points," Seliger Swenson said. "And she came off the court crying. 'Get me out of here.' "

School officials whisked her to the principal's office and called Lee, who told the principal to call police. Pott said that Lee left messages on an investigator's work phone Thursday. But, he said, the investigator was not in the office.

Seliger Swenson is frustrated and angry that her sister's pleas went unheard.

"You know, none of us are surprised," she said. "We're devastated, but we knew that he was trying to kill her."

The tragedy is even more horrific for Lee's children, she said. On Monday, Seliger Swenson said, she and her husband -- who have a 9-year-old and twin babies -- will begin the process to gain guardianship of her nieces and nephews. They plan to enroll them in the Hopkins school district, where they both work.

"They lost their dad five years ago to a car accident," Seliger Swenson said. "This is brutal."


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That is aweful. Maybe, just maybe a guy can be excused for doing something crazy when his heart gets broken, but for him to break his bail conditions and remain free is terrible. $4,000 of alarm systems didn't save her, I'll bet a $200 shotgun and $200 worth of teaching would have :mad: Gotta feel aweful for those kids, losing both parents like that.
 
I don't believe it. It's all a pack of lies because I know for a fact people with restraining orders against them and have been charged with assult and stalking charges cant have guns.Right? :fire:
 
I bet she didn't warn her new friend. I've seen this in relationships before. They either don't want to scare you off or are afraid you'll "start something".

I'd prefer to know but I don't really care much. I know there's scary people out there and I know the women I get involved with have a past. At my age they'd better have a past :D

I'm prepared and always half-expecting crap like this to happen. Having loaded guns handy can be a good thing, M'kay? :rolleyes:
 
Ric: I disagree!

I'd be darned proud to buy the rope!!! Too bad Dodge City's just a faded memory. That "Dirty Sally" was a hot, hot chick, I'll tell ya! :scrutiny:

Doc2005
 
Looks like it was Minnesota.
Here's the link:
http://www.startribune.com/462/story/694902.html

What's the idea behind the 'big red x on his forehead'?

The police had to worry about four innocents in the case - gal and boyfriend, the kids. Don't start in on them because they didn't storm the joint first thing... it might be a hostage taking, and the hostage taker might wipe 'em out once SWAT came in.

An alarm system still isn't as good a stopper as a mine field.
 
Thanks Geronimo45 -- I should have posted the link. This was in a suburb of Minneapolis/St. Paul early Friday morning.

I wouldn't expect the police to just storm in. That's exactly the issue. That is NOT their job -- despite what we see on TV. The guys who DID storm in are true heroes -- I did not mean to say "Police" are worthless. Relying on Police to protect you from nutbags like this loser is what I meant as worthless.

How the heck are any Law enforcement going to know good guy/bad guy, real threat vs. imagined, etc. in time to really do anything about it? I suppose it might work if 1/2 the population served as Police protection for the other half (but they would have to sleep, so we would need to have 3 shifts of police protecting 1/4 of the population. And who would protect them? Hmmmm.)

I mean...it takes how many Secret Service Agents to protect ONE person - the President? And even they let a wacko through once in a while.

The only truly effective way to protect yourself is....self-defense. Relying on yourself and family. And the best means of self-defense is the gun.

Many people argue that we don't need guns because the Police, courts, technology, etc. protect us. This tragic case proves once again that every "protection" we can put in place falls far behind a trained person with a gun.

This case is just sad. Who knows if this poor woman and her boyfriend would be alive if they had a gun.

The point is WHO gets to decide that having a gun for self-protection is not an option? I believe that every non-violent-criminal US citizen, and hopefully someday every human being should get to make that choice for themselves.

End of preaching to the choir. I thought this sad story would be a good example of the need for RKBA. Something for us all to reference as we fight the good fight. Oppose gun control in all its forms and introduce friends - especially kids and women - to shooting.
 
I've got an alarm system, and I realize that it provides ZERO protection. But what is does do, is give me enough warning to grab my 12 ga. and rack a shell into the chamber. After that, it's up to me and no one else. If the police can help, that would be appreciated, but I certainly don't expect it.
 
The only purpose a restraining order serves is to back up the shooter if the victim happens to shoot/kill the abuser and for some reason ends up in court.

Otherwise it's just another piece of paper with black markings on it. Don't count on it to stop a knife or a bullet.
 
What a freakin' nightmare for those kids.

It disgusts me that the perp is STILL among the living. :banghead:
 
Ryder: re-read the story. Her "new friend" helped install the alarm system because he did know!

Oh, thanks Bob :) Illogical things have a way of not registering when I work nights.

I've known people who would rather die than have a gun in their home for defense. It's a shame because if someone is intent on harming them no amount of locks or alarms can keep them safe.
 
They are certainly not worthless. They aren't perfect. They won't stop someone who is trying to attack you personally right now. They are very useful for certain things.

Restraining orders are violated at least once more often than not. But if the person doing it doesn't kill you right away he can be arrested for it. And they do cut down on the number of unwanted contacts overall. When it comes time to bring him to trial for something, G-d willing not a murder, they are an important part of the paper trail to demonstrate that he really does need to be in jail.

Phone? How else are you going to get an ambulance and order a pizza to share with the paramedics while you wait for the police?

Alarms? Again, if someone wants to zip you and just you at this very moment they won't help. For anything less they deny privacy to the potential criminal. And that, as Martha Stewart would say, is a Good Thing.

Police? No, they can't be everywhere. They can't protect anyone and have no legal duty to do so. But if you think we'd be in no more danger without them you are living somewhere other than the United States on Planet Earth.

When a gun is the right tool nothing else will do. Fortunately, it is almost never the right tool.
 
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