Knock the carbide ring out of the 38/357 fcd and you'll be left with a fine roll crimp die. I found a photo of a pile of the bullet you're using (I think) and although it has roll marks it appears that it does not have a cannelure, but I can't really be sure. If that's the case you should be using a taper crimp and not a roll crimp. If the fcd you're using is specifically for 38/357, it's a roll crimp, as is the crimp in the seater die. Lee makes a fairly inexpensive taper crimp die for this, which works well (it's basically an fcd without the carbide). I seat and crimp separately, using a roll for cannelures and taper for non-cannelure bullets.
Both brands of plated bullets I've used were sized at 358, as are my cast. I use a Lyman M die to expand. The plugs that come with them are for jacketed, I have a custom plug to accomodate lead/plated bullets. If your sizer is sizing too small and/or your expander is not expanding enough or only flaring the mouth, the soft lead core could be swaged down by the case, possibly resulting in not enough neck tension. Another benefit I attribute to the M die is better concentricity due to, I believe, the combination of correct expansion for the bullet and the 2nd step allowing the bullet to start out more "square". In fairness, I use the Hornady seater die which theoretically also aides in concentricity. I like that the plug engages the bullet ogive rather than the tip.