For those with kids who desire to do military service check out your local college that offers ROTC. OU ROTC gives out about 12 scholarships a year that range from 2-3 years plus they give about $400 a month for spending money. It really turns out to a 4 year scholarship because the college throws in the first year free! My son is a sophmore this year in the ROTC program and thus far hasn't had to spend a dime of his (or my) money for books, food, or housing. He was allowed to major in a field of his choice and will only have to commit to 5 years service in payment (His choice of branch, active or reserve). Its such a great deal I now have my 14 year old daughter enrolled in JROTC (high school version). She loves the program too and has already made sergeant in 4 months! If you strongely believe as I do that most young adults will benefit from military service, You should starting checking out ROTC while your kids (or yourself) are still early in high school. You have to compete against other applicants so start early and demonstrate your commitment. 