Only vaporized or oxidized lead can be absorbed epidermally. Solid lead can't be absorbed through the skin. It has to be ingested or inhaled, and then again it has to be vaporized or oxidized. Washing your hands after handling lead is all that's required, as long as you don't put your hands/fingers in your mouth or nose. Don't eat or smoke while handling lead.
I've had discussions about this subject with Rick Patterson, CEO of SAAMI, and Ed Guster III, the EPA's leading authority on lead on shooting ranges, about this very issue. They've both written books on lead management and they both agree, as do most doctors, including mine, that lead isn't absorbed epidermally. They have both addressed our group, the Oregon Association of Shooting Ranges (OASR) on this very issue several times.
I've been shooting since 1958, reloading since 1963 and casting bullets since 1968. I've had my blood checked for lead several times, the last time being this past year, and my blood levels are normal. I don't wear gloves when reloading and I don't wear a mask when casting bullets. This past year I cast well over 30,000 bullets on a Magma Master Caster, lubed and sized them and have shot most of them. The only gloves I wear are leather work gloves to protect my hands from the heat of molten lead and hot molds when casting bullets.
I know people who have had bullets in their bodies since World War II and still test within the normal range for lead. We used to chew on lead split shot while fishing, which was dumb to do, but nobody knew the difference, but still my blood levels are within normal range.
One of the worst things you can do as far as lead poisoning is concerned is shoot a lot on indoor ranges that don't have a good EVAC system, and that don't practice good lead management practices.
An indoor range should never be swept. It should always be wet mopped. There should be no carpets at the shooting positions or anywhere else inside the range. All surfaces should be cleaned with a vacuum with a good Hepa filter on a regular basis. Good housekeeping and ventilation are the key.
Hope this helps.
Fred