InRemorse said:
I bought a ccw in 9mm but the 8" .357 was the awesome, practically self aiming, plus, one shot stops. Funny, I haven't thought about it, but I had it right in front of my nose all the time. I just need a shoulder holster.
I'm sure you were just being facetious, but no gun is anywhere near self aiming, and no gun is a "one shot stops" gun.... but I agree that the .357 mag is a much better 'stopper' than the 9mm, and a good long barrel just aims better, in my opinion... but the 9mm probably has much higher capacity, and that should be weighed in....
I think you will find, as I did, that the really big guns don't make good concealed carry guns... you will find the 9mm much easier to conceal (unless you are large), and much easier to carry around (which will arguably prompt you to carry more)...
I also battled the ideas you are battling now, and everyone has their own reasons for the decisions they make, but I concluded that a lot of rounds (such as your nine likely has) is probably better than a few rounds (considering each could do the job)..... I then later decided that I needed something smaller even than the full size 9mm I carried, because I found myself carrying less often because it was 'inconvenient'...
I have since moved to a 'concealed carry gun' in .38 special snub nose... 5 pretty decent hitting rounds in a real small package, so that I am more likely to carry it.... and so far I do, almost all the time... (have you considered a snub nosed .357 mag 5 shot?)
I may change my mind again later, but that is what is behind my decisions so far..... just to throw some of
my reasoning behind it all to date.... for what thats worth...
You will no doubt go through your own process.....