I got one for my wife (she picked it out) when she got her carry permit.
It's a reliable gun, and we both like the "breech action" the barrel has. For what it is (pocket-sized .32 "hold out"), it's pretty nice. It fits both my and her hand reasonably well (nothing too awkward - I have big, long hands, and she has petite child hands).
My only complaint, really, is the trigger/recoil slap. On recoil, my finger (and IIRC my wife's) will get slapped/pinched between the trigger and the bottom of the trigger guard. I think this partially due to the pistol's trigger/trigger guard design, and partially due to the short pistol grip prohibiting a firm grip. I've little experience shooting such small guns, so i couldn't say if it's particular to the tomcat, or if it's something that all such small pistols have, but I've never seen anything quite like it with larger framed pistols.