Ok, so im planning on buying a new handgun, its actually my first to purchase (inherited many firearms, none semi autoloaders) I love to shoot at the range, so I really don't want a .45 to wear my arm out, but I would keep it in the house, for self defense purposes, so i dont want a .22 either! A friend said a 9mm would be a good calibur (cheap as sin to reload, easy recoil, decent defense) so if I did get a 9mm, what would be my best bang for my buck? I would be willling to dish out between 300 and 400 dollars, maybe a little more if it seemed to be a good deal. Any thoughts on this? I know theres a crap load of 9's out there, but I also know that some of you have favorites! So whats your favorites?!