Rockjock, if homosexuality, drug use, or whatever, offends you so bad that you refuse to live in a community with "Those kinds of people", read
Democracy:The God that Failed by Hans Hermann Hoppe . He's a conservative anarchist
. He believes private communities SHOULD set standards, the understanding is that every resident of those private communities is an explicit signatory of a "contract" makes certain things okay and certain things worthy of expulsion. No ones 'rights' (your definition or mine) are being violated in such a circumstance because membership of said community is voluntary, you moved here with an explicit understanding of the rules (the contract you signed). And assuming a libertarian society, the right of Contract would be inviolate, unlike our modern society, which forces private associations to accept people without "discrimination. Meaning, if your private community agreed, "no sodomites and crack addicts", none could live in your community or else they'd get the boot. Another private community might make a rule, "only gay crackheads are allowed", that community also would be allowed to form (however it would probably have a lifespan of about 30 days
) . What I'm trying to say is, you CAN have community standards, as long as those "community standards" are formed with a Consensus of participants.
So, suppose you had a community, call it "squaresville", population 50. Those 50 residents if they were so inclined, could make a rule saying, "no marijuana is allowed within the city limits", if they got unanimous consent. No one's rights have been violated because the signatories are all consenting adults. Now people that want to smoke marijuana can see a sign on the city limits that says, "Squaresville- No pot allowed or 30 days in jail", setting foot within squaresville is a binding contract, and the penalty for breaking said contract is 30 days in jail. Pothead wants to avoid jail, he stays out of town. Suppose a town member signs the contract, gets cancer, wants to smoke pot, well he signed a contract, if he wants to smoke pot he has to get out of YOUR town.
Do you see where I'm headed, within a libertarian framework, communities can set standards, you can have your "conservative town" and I can have my "wacked out crazy libertarian town" and we can get along just fine.
atek3