Loosedhorse
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Dave Workman has an article up elsewhere talking about a case where one guy shot another...for "disrespecting him." I'm only surprised that Dave wrote about it because I consider such events common.
I'm reading a book called Violence: Reflections on a National Epidemic. You'll all be pleased to know that, no, the cause of violence is not, per the author, guns.
The author is the former head of the MA Corrections Psychiatric Unit, so he's seen some stuff. There is (IMHO) a lot to disagree with in his theories, but his observations are telling.
He mentions specifically that some of the worst incidents of murderous violence he has ever come to know about were started by a seemingly minor event. That was enough, given the psyche of the killer, to set things in motion.
Elsewhere I was recently taken to task (don't worry--I'll be fine! ) for suggesting that being polite was an awfully good strategy for staying out of lethal force situations. The fact that it also makes the world a more pleasant place may be a secondary consideration. But this book stresses that politeness may in fact be quite valuable.
For a while I found it not easy to respond with calmness toward road-ragers; until one incident help me realize this guy was probably a bit low on his medications when I encountered him. Seriously.
So, I now try to take that same attitude if I run into a "sidewalk rager" or "parking lot rager", etc.
Or just anyone who looks normal, even.
I'm reading a book called Violence: Reflections on a National Epidemic. You'll all be pleased to know that, no, the cause of violence is not, per the author, guns.
The author is the former head of the MA Corrections Psychiatric Unit, so he's seen some stuff. There is (IMHO) a lot to disagree with in his theories, but his observations are telling.
He mentions specifically that some of the worst incidents of murderous violence he has ever come to know about were started by a seemingly minor event. That was enough, given the psyche of the killer, to set things in motion.
Elsewhere I was recently taken to task (don't worry--I'll be fine! ) for suggesting that being polite was an awfully good strategy for staying out of lethal force situations. The fact that it also makes the world a more pleasant place may be a secondary consideration. But this book stresses that politeness may in fact be quite valuable.
For a while I found it not easy to respond with calmness toward road-ragers; until one incident help me realize this guy was probably a bit low on his medications when I encountered him. Seriously.
So, I now try to take that same attitude if I run into a "sidewalk rager" or "parking lot rager", etc.
Or just anyone who looks normal, even.
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