Tennessee
I have the misfortune to live in the People's Republic of Mecklenburg - Charlotte, NC on the map. I moved here, much to my regret, from Memphis - actually Raleigh which is a bedroom community to Memphis and/or the Naval Air Station.
Tennessee is much more gun friendly and THEY HAVE NO STATE INCOME TAX. Corruption in NC makes Chicago look like a Boy Scout camp; currently in this city they have "water police" out busily writing $100 fines for the poor sap who makes the mistake of washing his car or, Heaven forbid, watering is lawn on the wrong day (note: you can not wash your car, period!!). City does not have the personnel to deal with crime but boy can they send them out in force to fine homeowners!
North Carolina CCW laws are much like the surrounding states and even here in Charlotte I have not seen private business firms that were posted. I am sure there are some but I have not seen them. Of course, the law takes care of some places - like any place that charges admission - so we don't go to the movie theaters and count the savings in dollars as a plus.
Although there are problems everywhere and surely no place is the perfect place to live, but given a choice between TN and NC, it is TN hands down.
I long for the day that I can escape from this liberal Hell-hole and move to the free state of South Carolina - my company did over 9 years ago so my office is actually there and I spend much of my time there as well as buy most of my "stuff" there - If you do move to NC and can do so, make it a small town as the small towns are still much like they were 30 years ago.
JOhn
Charlotte, NC