Tribute to a Granddaughter.

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Today I had to scatter the ashes as promised, for another of like kind.

Not the first time I have done this; most likely it will be the last time either.
The weather is gray, foggy, wet with rain, some sleet, and maybe snow later in the evening.
Experience has taught me, cold, wet does not hide the tears in eyes, though one would thinks so.

I want to be where the quail used to be we remember, and please crank up your signature song ...

In a special spot there are two 28 gauge shells, a stick of beef jerky , picture of a favorite dawg that passed, USGI 7 round mag with 230 gr hardball, picture of her Case knife with CV blades, Brass Zippo lighter, and picture of three Ladies, Grandma, Mom, and this Granddaughter.

Grandma was trained to be a sniper, she had other gifts and talents.
She could shoot handguns and shotguns very well too!
In another time and place, she did what needed done to survive and insure the survival of others.

This Grandma was one of my Mentors.

At 87 years of age, with a cast on her weak leg, she got down prone and with a iron sighted Model 70 in '06 flat ran that bolt!!
Poetry in motion, and the playing card had nice tight group!

"Not bad for a old lady that kicked a barn door and buster her leg huh?" - she said, with a grin, oh my what a grin she had!

She liked her Model '97 pump, Stevens 311, BHPs Colt handguns, from Gov't model of 1911, Mustangs, and Revolvers.
She had a special place for small tip up Berettas, she had BTDT and shared about these guns...

Mom, well grandma raised this kid right. Mom started young, and had the genes of gifts and talents too.
She too used street smarts, blending in and getting past checkpoints, and traveling light, using simple tools.
She liked her Model 12s and all her mom did, but she preferred S&W, and J frames and small tip up Berettas were special too, as she too had BTDT

This mom was one of my mentors as well...

Granddaughter - come from good stock as we say.
Like her Grandma, and Mom she liked the same guns and was shooting before she learned to ride a bike.
She added some guns of her own, she liked her Model 29, Win SX1, and incorporated a P-11, this one fit a niche.

I was one of granddaughters Mentors by now.
She was in a hi-risk business and all the genes, talents and gifts were useful.

One would never know she knew anything about guns, knives, shooting, hunting, this was the perspective she wanted to give off.
Most folks of like kind that met her for the first time, thought she was left handed, no.
She wanted that perception, as she would draw from weak side first, if matters went sour.
Bone stock Gov't Model of 1911 and NO ambi, and from concealed, draw weak handed and be on target fast.


Her tools upon leaving were bone stock Colt Combat Commander, Colt 7 rd mags with dimple follower , 230 gr hard ball, Zippo lighter, Arc-Light key chain light, book of matches, disposable ink pen, Beretta Jetfire, Hen & Rooster Slimline Trapper, Hen & Rooster small pen knife less than 3" when closed, Beaded neck chain with Medical Alert - sharpened on one edge, she had no allergies, just chose "ASA" ( aspirin) ...a few other things as well.

Hi-Risk work, and for example, she has $400,000 worth of mdse, and she enters, delivers, and does so with a Beretta 21A in .22 lr, the Hen&Rooster pen knife and is done.

Street Punks over there, and in leaving she passes a few LEO with SWAT designations and nobody ever suspected anything.
Blending in is the key...

She liked good Scotch neat, would not turn down straight bourbon whiskey neat either...
Good cigar was appreciated , whether she actually smoked one after a job well done, or the aroma of a good cigar or pipe tobacco wafting near being appreciated by another...
She tossed peppermint to dawgs, she got that from me...

Turn the Page by Seger is the song.

I'd appreciate a toast, a cigar , tossing a dawg a peppermint- and that song on her behalf, I know she would too.

Run'em!

Miss ya Babe, but you damn sure Run'em , just like your Grandma, and Mom!




Say, here I am, on the road again. there I am, up on the stage.
Here I go, playing star again.
There I go, turn the page.
- Turn The Page - by Bob Seger
 
Much Unanswered

Before her time.

You make me miss people I've never met.

Sorry, Steve.

Glad she had someone to do the honors.
 
I'll be tippin' a brew and my bandanna to her Steve.

*Blue skies and country roads*...

Biker
 
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Thanks.

There are those that do what they do, and nobody even knows these people do what they do.
Hi-Risk, and legit business has always been done this way...

Strategy & Tactic being, they don't look, act, do anything, or want to even hint as being anything like some on forums today do.
Not even the Body Guards, ladies and gents both, or Chauffers, used, trained in Hi-Risk defensive driving.

Granddaughter.

Growing up, and wanting to learn to drive as all teenagers do.
She could not have backed over a metal trash can more exact - if she had been going forward and aiming at it.

"Well dear, you shoot better than you drive , I am not a total failure as a mom yet".

Time passes and Granddaughter is getting defensive , assertive, aggressive driving lessons.
Lady Bodyguard is giving lessons, and on private property, using older cars, and cardboard boxes, it was akin to Demolition Derby.
Keep the car running, use the car to evade, and escape...just survive.

"How are you at driving backwards and feel about smashing into things?" asked the lady body guard.

Mom and I busting out laughing...
Body guard looks at us, the Granddaughter, and chuckles.
"Don't tell me, I can tell from them two idiots you have practice and experience in this area already!"

Real cars, demolition derby going on and Granddaughter just hootin; and hollerin' backing into cars and everything.

"Tomorrow we shoot while in a vehicle" - Lady Body Guard said.

Talk about exited! She did get frumpy at the start of these lessons, having to use blanks then .22, but when she got to centerfire, she was all grins.
"I need your .44" she asked me
I gave my vehicle gun to her, she liked big holes, and the feel of a .44 with full house loads of LSWC.

Body guard just laughed, we all watching Granddaughter driving and shooting a .44 weak handed and making hits.
Even when the sun went down...

"Feed me! I worked up an appetite today!"

Pizza with everything, is the proper food after shooting from cars, and doing demolition derby btw.

She smelled like gun powder, gas, oil grease, sweat, Supreme Pizza,
Just a typical Southern Belle raised right ...

She was only 19 that day...

At the checkout...they had chocolate covered mints one could buy like most joints do.
The little bowl needed refilled, as there was only 3 left.

Fella said "hang on, I will refill it".
I am one guy, with 3 ladies , never said I was smart now did I?

Granddaughter said she would take the whole box, Mom and Bodyguard agreed...she grabs the box and they all leave out the door giving the look only gals can do...

"Umm, it looks like I get to pick up the tab tonight and get to buy a box of chocolate doesn't it?" - I said.

"Yes it does" replied the Pizza Joint owner. Busting out laughing...
...we knew each other and razzed all the time.
 
OK. Sorry for your loss. Damn, you've know some really great people, and we've all benefitted from your sharing.
Quit tobacco yrs ago, still miss it; but I'll danged sure tip a glass to her! Dawgs will get a peppermint, too!

D'os strovia (or thereabouts!)
Bob
 
WOW!

Steve, you sure know how to bring a tear to this hardened old coot's eyes...

My deepest condolences on the loss.


But even in your less pleasant writings, you still manage to bring in a spot of humor, along with Important Life Lessons. I await your Bound Book of Life Lessons, as taught by Steve.
 
Thanks again for the kind words.

Just me, how raised and everything, add I am not as young as once was...
Still today, I see folks carrying themselves and have to shake my head.
The things they do, attract eyes and ears and trouble follows.

There were gun schools when I was coming up,except for police and military.
Lessons passed forward, did come from such folks, and some other special folks like body guards, now called personal protection personal.

Then again we had garbage men growing up and now these are waste management personal.

Garbage men did not get feelings hurt by being called "garbage men", they did a job, did it well, whether it was driving the trucks through small alley's or riding on the back of the truck, or working at the dump.
Heck even the ladies did not get offended being called garbage men, just like lady postal workers were called "Postman", or "Mail Carriers".

We kids would sometimes get to ride on the back of the truck to the next house, just what folks did back then.
We kids sometimes would go down an alley and "help" - we were a lot of help I am sure thinking back on all this.

Tossing a loose pc of something into the garbage truck, putting a trash can lid back on, whatever.
But we got bigger, and outgrew this like we did other things.

Granddaughter come from good stock, and did her work, and was good at it.


Quail teaches one a helluva lot about survival.
Ruark was correct when he wrote his Grandpa's words Respect the Quail, always respect the quail.


Lessons, or "training" as it is called today, included reading Ruark's works, especially The Old Man & The Boy,.

If a man does away with his traditional way of living and throws away his good customs, he had better first make certain that he has something of value to replace them. -Basuto proverb

Robert Ruark used that proverb as the epigraph for his 1955 novel of Africa, Something of Value.
 
Sorry for your loss

God's Lent-Child

"I'll lend you, for a little while, a child of mine," God said.
"For you to love the while she lives, and mourn for when she's dead.
It may be ten or fifteen years, or forty-two or three.
But will you, 'til I call her back, take care of her for me?"

"She'll bring her charms to gladden you and should her stay be brief,
You will have her memories as a solace for your grief.
I cannot promise she will stay since all from earth return.
But there are lessons taught below I want this child to learn."

"I've searched this whole world over in my search for teachers true.
And from the things that crowd life's lane, I have chosen you.
Now will you give her all your love nor think the labor vain?
Nor hate me when I come to take this lent-child back again?"

I fancied that I heard them say, "Dear Lord, Thy will be done."
For all the joys Thy child will bring, the risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter her with tenderness. We'll love her while we may.
And for the happiness we've known, forever-grateful stay.

But should Thy angels call for her much sooner than we've planned,
We'll bare the bitter grief that comes,
And try to understand...

- Author Unknown
 
SM, sorry to see you've lost another friend.
I hope someone can and will eulogize me the way you've done her.

And, too many focus on big daddy Ernie Hemingway and completely forget about Ruark, a good southern writer.

In many ways our southern culture that spawns great people like her and like Ruark is disappearing. Pretty soon, we'll be curiousities, we southern folk.
 
Thanks ...

When she was a wee brat, The Old Man and The Girl was read to her.
My take and others have been Ruark would not have minded a little title and reading being edited.

As little little cute darling girls , with pink bows to match pink bows in a dress will do....
"I hate pink!"
"No more stupid bows in my hair, or on them stupid dresses, and I hate them stupid shoes too!
"It is the Old Man and The Boy, are you stupid? Can't you read?"

When Tomboy stage hits, it hits fast!
Holler out the back door and from a tree she climbed "Yes I know supper is ready, I heard you yell the first two times, I am on my down, and I know, I know if I fall and bust my butt ,and break my leg, don't come running in crying, whining and being a baby..."

Re: Strategy & Tactics.
She was good about figuring stuff out...

She climbed higher in a tree one day and then got that fear we all did as kids about getting back down.
She was not allowed to use the work "can't" as "can't had died, so she was parented and mentored.

"Okay, besides just falling out and busting my butt...let me think.
You could come up here and get me, and let me come down riding your back"
she said.

"Any other ideas?"
"Yeah, does it cost much to rent a helicopter, I think it would be neat to ride down in a basket".

I went up a wee bit, to assist with self esteem.
She got down by herself with me giving assurance, and letting her know her hands and feet were in the right places.

"Whew! I did it! I still want to ride that basket helicopters use though". *LOL*

Happiest kid in the world the day she took a helicopter ride, not scared at all...

Lesson was to have a plan, a backup plan, to pay attention where you came from, and stop, not panic, instead figure out what to do.
 
Steve, sorry for your loss.

I post little but read alot....

can sense the hole she left......

good memories can fill it in time

the special ones are so hard for us to lose.
 
SM,

That was beautiful. I hope you don't mind but I posted the thread url over on NorthEastShooters.com for their members to read the words you wrote. I am sure that most of the NES crowd would feel the same way you do.

My condolences on your loss.
 
Thanks again.

Allow me to clarify.

This was not my Granddaughter, instead a granddaughter.

Three generations of ladies, I referred to as Grandma, Mom and Granddaughter.
Ladies that were the real deal, when it comes to strategy, tactics in the context I was raised with, and others around here.

In harm's way, doing what needed doing to preserver freedom, to insure others were safe, and to make sure valuables and sensitive matters stayed safe.

I was mentored by the Grandma and Mom, and I was a Mentor to Granddaughter - that said, I always learn from those I assist with.

I am old school and I believe we must pass forward what is true and correct, and honor those that came before us that passed on to us, and pay tribute to those that do the right things.

In a world ...heck I don't know what this world is about, and where headed at times.
Folks living in a fantasy world and using words out of context, just seems downright disrespectful to me.

I never served in the Military, and I raised nine kinds of hell when in a work I refer to, it was best I wear a field jacket, with peace signs and cuss Vietnam and do so for cover.
I raised a fit, and the Marine, my body guard, did not ask, he made it damn clear as a Marine will do, he and I were going to dress act like a bunch of disgruntled Vets and get this job done.

We had some LEOs in on this shin-dig, and we called them Pigs, Heat, the Man and we put on a show...still it really ticked me off. It hurt.
I have too much respect for folks to do these things, still the Marine was right, as was the LEOs to use this strategy and tactic.

Granddaughter, like her mom, and grandma, were good people.
One would never know they had the skills sets they did, and did the work they did.

They, like me , get a bit concerned about some folks, and the way they act, and how they are perceived- and how it reflects on those that are and have been in real deal work.

Aw Phooey, anyone says I am sentimental I will deny it.

I best think of some fun times like hunting quail or some serious situations that humor kept us sane...else my monitor is going to get more blurry than it already is.


Next time you wear the damn Mini-Skirt and drive the convertible, and see how it feels with a bottle of RC between your legs and trying to down shift like that...
 
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