Thanks for all the advice guys. I'm going to delve a little deeper into some of those DVDs and decide which one suits me the best.
Conwict, if I decide on that one I will send you a PM.
I guess like most things it just takes time to get accustomed to. Like I said, I do not feel like prey, but feel like others may view me as easy prey. I'm still trying to remain optimistic that the VA is going to find a way to help.
Thanks again.
Shawn