Before I say anything, let me state that I am glad you want to introduce your girlfriend to shooting... What I'm going to say next -IS NOT- meant to be a flame. Just want to present another opinion.
My girlfriend is wanting to shoot it, and i dont want to hurt/scare her, any ideas?
My idea would be to treat her like a woman, and not a little girl.
I do not intend to be sarcastic. I'll explain myself. I know the majority may disagree with me. Maybe not. But this is just the way I deal with my girlfriend of 4.5 years when it comes to shooting.
I don't take it easy on my girlfriend when it comes to shooting. If she's home alone, and needs to use this thing, I don't want her to be afraid of what's going to come out of the other end - quite the opposite, actually. I want her to be comfortable and confident in herself no matter what gun she might have to pick up in a SHTF scenario.
I started her out on a 1911. Maybe not the
best way to start, but it was pretty much all I had at the time. She thought the recoil was impressive, but knowing that she had just shot the big bad .45 did something to her. I had never seen her enjoy herself in quite that same way, and I knew I had a shooter on my hands. Not a week before that, she was a fence-sitter at best.
Since then, when we go to the range or buy pistols, if I'm getting something for me, I get what I want. If she wants to shoot it, that's cool. If not, that's fine too. If she asks me to buy her a pistol, I buy what SHE wants, and if I want to shoot it or not, that's up to me. If she rents something at the range, or buys her own pistol, same applies.
We respect eachothers choices and opinions, as she is just as much an individual as I am - I won't tone down my loads/guns to suit her, and she wont beef hers up for me. We ask eachother opinions, and sometimes we end up seeing the others point of view... Sometimes not.
That being said, I've never seen her turn down an opportunity to shoot any gun, in any caliber or platform. When we go to fire .357 Magnum (her first time), I'll recommend that she shoots .38's first... But she's already fired .38 Spl, and although she likes it, she wants to shoot my .357 Magnum for what it is...
Insist on those .38's, and she'd probably tell me to f**k off.
No healthy adult woman should be
hurt by firing a .357 Magnum. If you're worried about it scaring her, then let her know what she's getting into, and let her make her own choice... .38's might be better for her, but let HER decide that... don't baby her. Not when it comes to guns. You want her confident in herself - you don't want her to doubt her abilities.... especially with something that could save her life one day.
Any healthy adult woman can handle a "big gun," as long as she hasn't been told that she's too weak, too small, that's a MAN'S caliber, etc. I doubt though, given your level of concern for her, that you're that type of guy.
Click here, and you'll see what I mean. Maybe you'll want to show this to your girlfriend as well - I know mine was scared to death of the idea of Magnum revolvers... until she saw this. Funny how some ladies gain confidence when they see other women doing certain things.
Sorry for the long winded post, but hopefully this helps...
Oh, and if you want to see a NOT so healthy woman shooting a big gun, you can
click here.
Enjoy, and good luck!