2ndamd:
I understand your dislike of plastic guns as I'm no fan, either. But, since you said that a 9MM would not be for carry, you don't have to worry about weight or size. That being the case, I suggest looking at a Star Mod 30. It's built like a '49 Chrysler. It's solid metal and weighs quite a bit. Because of the weight, the recoil is very little; it is a double tap monster. It holds 15+1 rounds, too. I see them unused in the box for $350 online. Mine I bought used and it cost $235, I think. And, S&W 5900 mags work just fine in it. I did have to remove the magazine safety lever on the gun but this was better than having only one magazine. It's a great range gun, very accurate. It does frequent next-to-the-bed duty at my place. Oh yeah, after thousands of rounds, all kinds of different makers and loads, my Mod 30MI has not jammed once.