When I was younger, I also was 'anal' about cleaning every tiny part to the point of looking brand-spanking-new. Over the years, other priorities have taken the place. In thinking about this, I also used to keep my work truck and my wife's car immaculately-clean and polished. When you own a house and try to maintain everything on (in) the house, and with a large yard to mow every four days due to a lot of rain, the things that were "REAL-IMPORTANT" when I was younger, aren't so important any more.
This is not to say I abuse my guns in any way, I don't want to see rust just like the rest of you, however, with the modern ammo that has little to no corrosive properties, I may go a year or two before cleaning my stainless steel pistols. My blued guns get a little more attention, as I don't want them to rust.
I can hunt when it is dry out, handling the long-guns, and never wipe them down, and there are no rust spots at all. If I get caught in the rain, then I will be anal about it as soon as I get home! I found that placing a wet gun near my boiler (where it is warm and dry) will dry the gun out within an hour or two.
Where it used to be an automatic thing to do after EVERY shooting, it has kind of gotten placed on the "back-burner," so to speak, when I have other responsibilities to tend to.
Also, I need to be in the mood to clean my guns. When I am in the mood, I might just go through and clean all of them and then wipe them all down.
Anymore, I skip washing my vehicles sometimes for up to a year or so. So, they are dirty, who cares? Yes, I like a clean vehicle and clean guns, however in my older age, other things take priority (like being here telling you all how I used to do it compared to NOW)!