Im283
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(this quote was lifted from another thread. I started this post there but realized I would be hijacking so I just started another thread.I'm not sure how you married guys carry without your wives' knowledge. My wife frequently feels my CCW when she hugs me - no big deal.
When this happens with my wife she immediately gives me a look and always says something to the effect of " I hate it when you wear that"
This is a woman who is mostly rational and had never ever had a bad experience with a gun, or had a loved one who had a bad experience with one. She claims to understand it is the person not the gun who commits crime. She has smashed her finger with a hammer or burnt herself on the stove more times than she has ever seen a gun in person aside from the ones I own.
How do I get her past this feeling that guns are nasty and worse than most anything on earth?
In spite of the feelings she expresses she tells me "I do not mind you have them." I think she does not mind as long as they stay locked in the safe.
I honestly do not think she minds I shoot them as long as they promptly get locked away.
I am not an irresponsible person, I am very safe when handling the guns, I took a carry course that cost more than average so as to be taking it from what I considered a better source.
I have asked her to shoot them, I have asked her to just learn about them,
I have asked her to come here to read about others who share this interest.
I dunno what to do, I am afraid it is going to come to a head......
it is really starting to piss me off