Sonny,
Actually, you did a very good job of clarifying the situation. It's really not hard to follow you in what you said unless someone just wants NOT to understand.
I have to admit I was one of those people who also thought it almost impossible to get a handgun permit if a NYC resident but now I know better. It's not exactly like NYC advertises in the New York Times how residents can easily apply for the handgun permit.
The biggest obstacle to acquiring one is the waiting period. Most people who want to acquire anything in life want it within a reasonable timeframe. People who want a gun for protection when hearing that it might take a year for permit approval while a shotgun permit might only be a couple of months will opt for the shotgun and say to themselves, I'll get my handgun permit at a later date.
I did the same thing for 20 odd years myself. Living in Suffolk County (not NYC for you out of towners), I knew it would take me about 6 or 7 months before I was going to be approved or denied my permit. Whenever I thought about doing it, I gave up on the idea simply because I knew what I had to go through to get it. Go to my nearest precinct and get an application. Then go out to Yaphank Police Headquarters (an hours drive), fill out the application, get fingerprinted, go through a long interview, be told to come back with my discharge papers showing I was honorably discharged from the military (if you have anything but "Honorable" on it you are disqualified) bring a list of names of neighbors who will be interviewed by the police as to your character, etc. Then get several postal money orders to pay the several fees for the application. You are then advised you will hear from them upon completion of their background investigation of you. That includes Suffolk County PD, New York State PD, Federal and military background checks. The last thing they did was when a female detective called my wife and asked her a bunch of questions such as: did you know your husband applied for a pistol license, has he ever threatened you or anyone else, has he ever struck you ? etc. As apparently she gave all the right answers, they then mailed me my pistol license. Exactly 7 months to the day later from date of application.
I'm not going to bore anybody any further with details, but it's just as hard to keep it as get it.
You're at a restaurant with your wife and some drunk comes over and starts making passes at your wife, you shove him, a fight ensues and both parties are arrested. Police say "we'll sort it out later". It's later determined you were only protecting your wife, but the fact is you were ARRESTED, not convicted. It doesn't matter, you just lost your pistol license which will never be granted again because on your original application your advised if ever arrested you will not be granted a license. End of discussion.
I remember many years ago when I was in a drug store in Ohio, a local resident was in there and bought a .357 simply by showing his drivers license. Well, it ain't that easy here.
I'm not really able to discern why it's so hard for people to understand what Sonny has been saying unless they don't want to understand. Yeah, the system stinks and no one knows it better than those living here. Just be thankful you don't, but don't be so critical of those who do. Most of us live in NYS and NYC because we were born here, went to school here, have our families here and our jobs. I live here because I work in a field of international trade and ocean transportation. Not many openings for me in Colorado or Kansas, etc. Not many of us are about to simply pack up and move to a state just so we can have CCW. For some reason, having a job is also important.
This is turning into a rant, so let me just end it with give Sonny a break. He's just trying to explain something that's not so easy for most people to understand or accept.
BTW, Within the year I plan on retiring and moving to a real American state like Virginia, Pennsylvania, Forida or North Carolina that does have CCW.
Safe shooting.