I first tried a Bushnell RDS on a 10/22 to see how it worked as a sight. I liked it. So I added one to my AR. Continued to like it. Thought about it for handgun, but had the same worry about slide impact. Other threads here on THR convinced me to try it. I now have two (one Bushnell, one Holosun), both on M&P 2.0 Compacts. They do make it quicker to acquire target, and more accurately, BUT it takes an extended training period to get used to focusing on the target instead of the front sight.
Several national level advance trainers believe in RDS on semi-auto handguns as the future of self defense and LEO handguns: John Correia (Active Self Protection), Scott Jedlinski (Modern Samurai Project), Brian Hill (The Complete Combatant), John Lovell (Warrior Poet Society).
On the other hand, probably the premier national trainer, Tom Givens (Rangemaster), is not a fan. He considers them not ready for prime time. To make matters worse, I had one fly off my slide (broken screws) during a Rangemaster class with Tom standing next to me! I have co-witnessed iron sights on both M&Ps, so as the RDS hit my ball cap I just kept firing using the iron sights. My experience reinforced his opinion but also made me VERY glad I had co-witnessed iron on the guns.
I had a talk with my machinist gunsmith and he remounted the sight. We were both concerned that the screws and loc-tite had not been done right the first time (a different gunsmith).
I have only been shooting the M&P with RDS for 8 months, and so less than a thousand rounds so far. Nonetheless, I am sold on the value, especially as my astigmatic 7 decade eyes just are not as sharp as once upon a time.
Craig