Welcome!
Hello BRFishMan!
Let me start off by welcoming you to a great board! I've never seen a board with so many VERY knowledgeable people willing to help anyone with just about anything ... so you'll never be at a loss for opinions!
Onto your question ... getting people's opinions on what to buy is great but remember this is
YOUR gun and it has to be something that
YOU like and that
YOU are comfortable with! You're asking questions that, to me, seem out of order for what you want to do.
This is your first handgun so everything you do is going to be a learning experience and a gun is a good size investment $$$ so I am going to turn this around on you! My main goal is to try to make sure you
don't end up with Buyer's Remorse ... so just try to bear with me on this little rant here!
1. What kind of gun do
YOU like? I'm not talking about if the gun is easy to clean or if it's a good price or a good name ... are you drawn more to a revolver or a semi-auto? BOTH have advantages and disadvantages and you will get people on this board who LOVE revolvers and HATE autos and the other way around. This isn't about them ... it's about YOU!
I'm going to say this and I KNOW I'm going to get beat up on this but I don't care because it matters to you in how you ... (know it sounds corny but) ... how you bond with your gun! When I decided to get my first gun I went online to all the gun makers I could find and I looked at all their different guns. You know how I decided between a revolver and a semi-auto? I thought the semi looked cooler! That's it! No real research, no polling ... I liked the look of the gun! Period! My heart was set on a semi and you could have given me a revolver ... BRAND NEW & FREE and I just wouldn't have loved it like I love my semi now!
Once you decide for sure between a revolver and semi that helps you big time because you reduced your possibilities by half!
2. Caliber! You said you were interested in a 9MM ... why? I have no problem with 9MM and if that's what you really want that's cool. But don't make choices based on what others say. Have you fired guns before ... or been around them? If you havn't then every caliber is going to make you jump and flinch a little when you first shoot it ... personally I think what you hear from a movie gun is entirely different than an actual gun! I picked a 45 for my first gun and until I got used to it I flinched ... it's loud ... and whether it's a 9MM, 44MAG, 10MM, 45 or whatever ... they're all going to go boom and get you at least once if you're new
it's the nature of the beast!
I have a 45 ... not so much because it's what I wanted or knew about but more so because of the style of gun I chose. I picked a 1911 style semi-auto and most of them (Not all) but most are chambered for a 45 caliber round. And I tell you something ... when I first took it onto the range I was a little scared! Listen, I'd never fired a gun in my life and there I was standing there with this big 45 and from what I heard from people on boards a 45 had a really hard kick to it. I was so scared of the gun whipping out of my hands, hitting me in the head, then the gun falling to the floor with a loud thud and having everyone stare at me like I was the biggest tool on the planet. But you know what, it wasn't that bad! ALL regular type handguns will have some recoil but all are manageable so if you're getting a 9MM because you heard somebody say a 45 will break your wrist it just isn't so!
I realize that I have written more than others so I'm going to leave it here for now until you reply back! People on this board will tell you what guns shoot better or what the best ammo is or best way to sight in a gun but you know what is REALLY going to affect your shooting skills??? BUYER'S REMORSE! THAT WILL KILL YOU! If you have buyer's remorse and don't like the gun or have a case of the would-a/could-a/should-as you will never be truly comfortable with the gun and then you won't practice as much with it and you'll wind up with a VERY expensive paperweight! Maybe people won't or don't want to admit it but they know I'm right on this! If I invented a pink, Barbie, glitter gun in the shape of a triangle and it was found to be the most accurate, reliable gun on the planet you'd still have a ton of people saying bite me, I'm sticking with my gun! Because they LOVE it!
I hope it helps ... I hope it gives you something to think about! Again, I am sorry for the length of the message but I want you to REALLY be happy with your pistol when you get it!
Respectfully,
Frank
NJGunOwner81