Betty
Member
White Wing,
I'm a 25 year old female, 103 pounds and 5' 3-1/2 inches tall. Most everybody is bigger and taller than me, and A LOT stronger. My back isn't very good, so if you pinned me and bent me backwards, I'd snap in two and die. I'm not going to physically tangle with a man much stronger than me. What I lack in strength I compensate with a combination of my mind and hardware.
I've had a handgun permit since I legally could at 21. I've carried every day since and don't intend to stop. My description makes me an "easy target" for any rapist or thief, because as a small female, I'm supposed to be soft and vulnerable and scream and submit to their whim. My handgun gives me the fighting chance to come out alive.
I'm trained, I shoot my handguns well, and I have the proper mindset to carry and use one safely.
Several years ago a man I had recently split relations with called me from a payphone and threatened to "finish things." Since he was calling from a payphone, he could have been right down the street from me! I was safer staying put behind my locked door.
He had been harrassing me for months, and the police couldn't do much "because he hadn't really done anything to me" yet. Police aren't babysitters or personal bodyguards.
I dialed 911 and while I waited for the cops, I had my handgun out and extra magazines loaded. If my ex came through the door to "finish things," I would have been able to STOP him.
It took 20 minutes for the police to arrive.
Had I been unarmed and my ex stormed in within those 20 minutes, I would've been in deep trouble. My handgun is far more efficient than a baseball bat or kitchen knife, because there's no way I'm going to let a crazed man get close enough to me to use a bat or knife.
I'm a 25 year old female, 103 pounds and 5' 3-1/2 inches tall. Most everybody is bigger and taller than me, and A LOT stronger. My back isn't very good, so if you pinned me and bent me backwards, I'd snap in two and die. I'm not going to physically tangle with a man much stronger than me. What I lack in strength I compensate with a combination of my mind and hardware.
I've had a handgun permit since I legally could at 21. I've carried every day since and don't intend to stop. My description makes me an "easy target" for any rapist or thief, because as a small female, I'm supposed to be soft and vulnerable and scream and submit to their whim. My handgun gives me the fighting chance to come out alive.
I'm trained, I shoot my handguns well, and I have the proper mindset to carry and use one safely.
Several years ago a man I had recently split relations with called me from a payphone and threatened to "finish things." Since he was calling from a payphone, he could have been right down the street from me! I was safer staying put behind my locked door.
He had been harrassing me for months, and the police couldn't do much "because he hadn't really done anything to me" yet. Police aren't babysitters or personal bodyguards.
I dialed 911 and while I waited for the cops, I had my handgun out and extra magazines loaded. If my ex came through the door to "finish things," I would have been able to STOP him.
It took 20 minutes for the police to arrive.
Had I been unarmed and my ex stormed in within those 20 minutes, I would've been in deep trouble. My handgun is far more efficient than a baseball bat or kitchen knife, because there's no way I'm going to let a crazed man get close enough to me to use a bat or knife.