SR4756 was the first powder I ever loaded with. I used it with the heavy 9mm bullets (147 grain). I havent loaded with it in a while, but I seem to remember not being able to get enough of it in a case to cause pressure problems with the lighter bullets. It's not a dense powder and fills the case nicely. Compare your COL with load data for other Hollow point bullets, and the powder charge used. Most times HP bullets are seated deeper and uses a lower powder charge than a round nose profile. It kind of sounds like you have a COL of a round nose bullet and a powder charge of a hollow point bullet. When you are researching load data for an unknown (not listed bullet), compare the COL with the load data. It is ok to go longer because you will have less pressure due to having more case volume, but as you have found out you may have a weak load at that level. Going shorter is a no no because you increase pressure due to less case volume.
I checked some of my books and this is what I came up with,
Hornady #9 lists 5.5 grain max with a COL of 1.060
Lee #2 lists 6.3 grains for Jacketed at a COL of 1.135
Load Books lists 6.3 grains for a 124 grain remington seated at 1.135, 4.9 grains for a sierra FMJ seated at 1.090
I would work my way up to 6 grains and see what happens, or decrease my COL. I like my HP loads to be around 1.100 in 9mm, but I have gone longer and shorter depending on the gun. Varify the above load data and work up your load. Use at your own risk.