As was stated earlier:
Plan2Live said:
Carrying a concealed weapon, any concealed weapon, is a big sticky ball of compromise.
On to your other comments:
jamesmhebert said:
Wow.
There is a lot I had not conceived of. Thank you.
Welcome to concealed carry!
jamesmhebert said:
. . . . I had naively been focused more on the firearm choice and less on the items for carrying it.
It's a moving target of needs
You've also opened my eyes to see that my choices in firearm + belt + holster, however well investigated, are not likely to be "the end of the matter" in a single purchase. That helps, because if I end up disliking some aspect of package, I'm better prepared to identify what and why, in order to move on cleanly to the next thing rather than bash myself over "making a poor choice." I hate that, so I tend to obsess over details in making a purchase. It's good to know that purchases in this area are not THE.FINAL.SOLUTION. as of the first--er, second--er, perhaps fifteenth time around.
The truth is that almost nobody gets their rig set up perfectly the first time around. At this point, I own 3 carry guns and 7 holsters that I can think of off the top of my head. In order to carry full time (well, everywhere and everywhen legally permissible), I found that I needed more than 1 carry gun. I have 2 that I carry about 95% of the time. 1 small gun for pocket carry and 1 medium gun for belt carry and the large that I occasionally carry in colder weather. Selecting the firearm, holster, etc., is as much a part of getting dressed as picking which shoes to wear. For the small, I have a pocket holster. For the medium, I have an IWB hybrid (Crossbreed Supertuck), as well as an OWB leather for business casual to suits, and an OWB Kydex pancake for the woods, farms, etc., where I can OC. I also have 3 holsters for the large, for different situations.
jamesmhebert said:
Which gun (width x weight x caliber x rounds)
Dang. This changes daily! The gist of it centers around something I *will* carry and *do* shoot well. Short term, I lean toward the thinner 9mm's, but in time I gather this may change, and I'm open to that.
Yeah, it may change. That's OK. Happens to all of us. Don't overlook ammo costs, though. For example, as much as I like the .45 acp round, it's considerably more expensive to shoot than 9mm.
jamesmhebert said:
. . . . Perhaps I should consider ankle carry, when not in looser clothes and cargo shorts on the weekends?
First, I have to admit that I've never tried ankle carry, but consider pocket carry as well. Something like an LCP or a J-frame revolver can be slipped into a pocket (& pocket holster) pretty easily.
jamesmhebert said:
. . . . Gun belts
My pants wardrobe tends toward fitting thinner men's belts. Say, 1 inch wide. A lot of my day to day slacks have loops that are narrower too (they might accept up to a 1.5 inch width belt). Do you have a clothier widen your loops, or have I just never looked at that while shopping before (or should I be looking at shopping elsewhere)?
I never looked at the width of belt loops until I started carrying. Now that I wear a 1.5" belt every day, I always look at them when buying pants. I've never had any loops let out. I just pocket carry when I can't use my gunbelt. That's pretty rare, though. You can find 1.25" gunbelts, though.
I'm fortunate in that my daily wardrobe usually includes a jacket of some kind. When I get to dress casually for work, it's khakis and a sport coat. On more formal days, I'm in a suit. It's as good a cover garment as I've found.
jamesmhebert said:
People don't pay attention
Just an observation that this is a truth. Can't say how many times someone gets new glasses or shaves off their mustache and people can't figure out "what's different about you?" I had not thought about how much this applies to carrying also.
We live in a world where everybody and their dog hangs stuff off their belts. Cell phones (& some of them are quite large), pagers (less so these days) . . . You get the picture.