The seater plugs are easy to modify and make fit any bullet nicely. As far as the shoulder of the flat seater, yes you can remove it without issue, but I found it's better to leave it and just polish the sharp corner so if you have a bullet too crooked it won't dig in before straightening it out. If you ever mess up a plug they're easy to fix and make a custom seater while you're at it. I've made several custom seaters by enlarging the end, filling halfway with epoxy and setting a bullet into it. Here's one I recently did for my Lee 401-175TC bullets. It does a much better job when seating bullets than the flat plug did because the tip of the bullet looks flat but it's actually not.
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