bdickens
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"No" is the most important word in the English language.
"No" is the most important word in the English language.
Apparently there are no good Samaritans among us. There are those among us that will need assistance/help that will be left to their situation that may result loss of life. Tough bunch here!
Apparently there are no good Samaritans among us. There are those among us that will need assistance/help that will be left to their situation that may result loss of life. Tough bunch here!
...so I have to assume this is a learned trait, not a natural one...
Ya, no kidding. Just look at the kids these days.....We have become big, slow, unaware jelly donuts over the last 100 years.
Apparently there are no good Samaritans among us. There are those among us that will need assistance/help that will be left to their situation that may result loss of life. Tough bunch here!
herI work around homeless people all the time. I see what they're like when they're not panhandling for money (on their best behavior).
This is the best example I can give of the point I'm trying to make. I stopped at a convenience store one night to gas up the company car. I went into the store for a receipt, when I walked out I encountered a homeless black guy. He politely asked me for a ride somewhere. I wouldn't let someone I don't know in my car and with the company car the policy was no passengers regardless.
So I told the guy "Sorry, I'm not allowed to carry passengers." As soon as I said it the guy went absolutely BALLISTIC on me. He started screaming that I was a racist prick who had no regard for black people.
That's how most of the homeless people I encounter are. As long as they can get something from you they're nice, once you're of no use you see the real face.
I've said this before but a "coworker" (in the sense that we worked for the same national company) was murdered by a homeless person at the Denver Center for the Preforming Arts when he asked the guy to leave private property. The guy cut his throat and stabbed him to death then took the security badge off his uniform as a souvenir.
I have never ran into to a homeless person who was unarmed. I've also never run into one who didn't live by conning people. They live by lying to people and I watch them switch from one lie to another right in the middle of a story. I had one try to tell me that he was on my property in the middle of the night because he heard a car alarm several blocks away and thought my employer might do security for wherever the car was and he should report it to me. Because I'm supposed to believe he walked several blocks to find me specifically so he could report the car?
When the police clean up homeless camps in Colorado Springs they routinely find dogs that have been reported missing (panhandlers with animals make more money). They don't care how heartbroken your kids are over losing fluffy if they want the dog they'll take it.
Bottom line, as I said earlier, I have zero use for homeless people I exercise extreme caution everytime I interact with one and I NEVER turn my back on them.
I work around homeless people all the time. I see what they're like when they're not panhandling for money (on their best behavior).
This is the best example I can give of the point I'm trying to make. I stopped at a convenience store one night to gas up the company car. I went into the store for a receipt, when I walked out I encountered a homeless black guy. He politely asked me for a ride somewhere. I wouldn't let someone I don't know in my car and with the company car the policy was no passengers regardless.
So I told the guy "Sorry, I'm not allowed to carry passengers." As soon as I said it the guy went absolutely BALLISTIC on me. He started screaming that I was a racist prick who had no regard for black people.
That's how most of the homeless people I encounter are. As long as they can get something from you they're nice, once you're of no use you see the real face.
I've said this before but a "coworker" (in the sense that we worked for the same national company) was murdered by a homeless person at the Denver Center for the Preforming Arts when he asked the guy to leave private property. The guy cut his throat and stabbed him to death then took the security badge off his uniform as a souvenir.
I have never ran into to a homeless person who was unarmed. I've also never run into one who didn't live by conning people. They live by lying to people and I watch them switch from one lie to another right in the middle of a story. I had one try to tell me that he was on my property in the middle of the night because he heard a car alarm several blocks away and thought my employer might do security for wherever the car was and he should report it to me. Because I'm supposed to believe he walked several blocks to find me specifically so he could report the car?
When the police clean up homeless camps in Colorado Springs they routinely find dogs that have been reported missing (panhandlers with animals make more money). They don't care how heartbroken your kids are over losing fluffy if they want the dog they'll take it.
Bottom line, as I said earlier, I have zero use for homeless people I exercise extreme caution everytime I interact with one and I NEVER turn my back on them.
When one is out jogging alone, one should be very wary about letting anyone approach too closely, or getting too close to anyone.This topic is about someone asking me/us for the time, when everything about their body language is saying that they know exactly what time it is, without having to look at any watch.
Been there-done that- but, U forgot the 3rd switch to, ''I don't know you.'' Took me a while to realize, most really couldn't recollect it (telling the truth, from their perspective)That was an environment where one minute a patient was fine and the next he decided that you were the Antichrist and you had to die.
Apparently there are no good Samaritans among us. There are those among us that will need assistance/help that....
will NOT start with, ''do you know what time it is''
Tough bunch here! THANK YOU
When you interact with differing elements of society, you can read them with in reason.
Having faith in your situational awareness (based on training and observation / analysis) is good. Recognizing the gaps / lapses in that ability, and avoiding those circumstances that expose that gap is also good. Lacking in situational awareness and blundering about anyway is not a recipe for success, nor is letting your confidence in your S/A skills write a check that your butt may not want to cash. And on the flip side of that - avoiding contact with other humans is likely to improve your survival odds, but may also impoverish other areas of your life. It's all a balance of probability and consequence.When you interact with differing elements of society, you can read them with in reason.
... I was approached by a homeless person. I saw him from a distance. When I came close to him... he took a step towards me, and when I looked up, he was practically on top of me....
What could I have done differently to avoid this potentially hazardous situation?
It is those good looking ones with heaving cleavage that always seem to make it past my defenses... who are probably the most dangerous of all!