Apples and Oranges
I too prefer the 158gr over the 125's. In my Ruger Service 6 it hits to poa out to 25 yards. Also, after providing medical care to inmates, I decided wanted something that could have the best odds of being able to penetrate ******* to appetite from any angle should the need arise. Some of these criminals are huge MF'ers. I wouldn't use the 125gr on deer, criminals deserve the same respect.
Generally, in the hunting field, a bullet that exits on the far side is desirable. Deer generally don't understand what it means to be shot and often run off if crucial bone has not been broken or the spinal cord severed. An extra hole on the far side, among other things, makes for a better blood trail.
Two-legged criminals, on the other hand, have an extensive record of ceasing to present a threat after being hit in the torso by the original loadings of 125 gr. .357 Magnum SJHP's, back when revolvers ruled the roost in law enforcement. In such an environment, a bullet that exits on the far side with any appreciable energy can be a serious liability.
More to the point, are you willing to take on the added recoil, flash and blast of using Magnum loads? When the FBI issued the M-13 and M-65 in the three-inch configuration, the normal issue of ammunition for it was a +P .38 Special 158 gr. LSWCHP (the "FBI load").
Secondly, what is your preference for extent of penetration? The 110 gr. 357 Magnum has generally been loaded to lower velocity than the original 125 gr. loads. It was used successfully for many years by the US Border patrol, where excessive penetration was a concern. On the other hand, it is not a deep-penetrating load and may not always go deep enough if you don't get a frontal shot or, if like me, you like that option of shooting to impact pelvic bone.
As mentioned, Remington's 125 gr. Magnum Golden Saber load is considred a mid-velocity load that will likely deliver more penetration than a 110 gr. load. If you want the extra energy of a Magnum load but don't want to pay a high price in recoil, blast, flash and undue wear on an out-of-production gun, you might want to take a look at Speer's short-barrel 135 gr. Gold Dot load. If you don't want to pay the extra price of using a Magnum load, its .+P 38 Special cousin would be my second choice, behind the +P .38 Special Cor-Bon DPX load.