I used to have a Star Megastar 10MM, and it was quite gentle to shoot 200 grain bullets at the 1,200 FPS loads. Unlike other 10MM autos, it was made strong enough to handle the full loads without shooting itself apart. It really was a tank compared to the Colt and S&W autos which do not weigh anywhere near the Megastar. I can understand how folks have problems handling full loads in those autos, but I can also assure you the Megastar simply did not have the recoil of those lighter autos.
While the Megastar made it rather easy to handle the full 10MM loads because of its increased size and weight, that very same increase in size and weight made it a lot more difficult to conceal in any practical way. My only problem shooting my Megastar was the fact that my trigger finger continued to move downward with each shot. The trigger on the Megastar is too straight. If it were curved more like the trigger on my S&W 659, I don't think I would have had the problem with my finger creeping down. I wrapped a very thin strip of adhesive tape around the bottom of the Megastar trigger to form a kind of knob at the bottom, and that stopped my finger from moving. It looked dumb, but did the job. If I had continued shooting, I thing I would have had a gunsmith weld a knob on the bottom and finish it up to look a lot nicer than my adhesive tape fix.
In any case, the full load 10MM cartridge is an excellent cartridge if it is used in a really strong frame auto like the Megastar. It is a shame they stopped making the Megastar so many years ago. It really is an excellent pistol.
Best wishes,
Dave Wile