LoneStarWings
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Hi,
I'm a 26 y/o single guy who is a homeowner. I rent a room to my 22 y/o sister. I am out of town for 3 and 4 days at a time for work. While I'm at home I keep a handgun loaded in my bedroom (under my bed). When I leave the house I unload the gun and secure it in a case.
My sister says she wants access to the gun (a .40 s&w semi auto) because she gets scared while I'm gone. However, whenever I ask her if she wants to go to the range with me to learn how to use it she say something like "nah, I don't really feel like it". Obviously I say "well the gun is going to be inaccessible while I'm gone then", and then she complains about how that's unfair. She told me a story about how she heard a noise in the middle of the night while I was gone and had to call a neighbor to come look around the house with her, and that she really wishes she'd had the gun.
My questions....should I handle this differently? While I value my sister's safety, I feel it's probably more unsafe for her to have a gun and not know how to use it properly than it is for her to not have it at all.
Also, am I being negligent by keeping the guns loaded & under the bed while I'm at home? I recently took an NRA intro pistol course and the instructor said we should always keep the gun in a locked safe all the time unless we need to use it (in case friends come over, etc). I realize I might get flamed for these questions, as they are probably basic gun safety, so I apologize in advance.
Advice appreciated,
LSW
I'm a 26 y/o single guy who is a homeowner. I rent a room to my 22 y/o sister. I am out of town for 3 and 4 days at a time for work. While I'm at home I keep a handgun loaded in my bedroom (under my bed). When I leave the house I unload the gun and secure it in a case.
My sister says she wants access to the gun (a .40 s&w semi auto) because she gets scared while I'm gone. However, whenever I ask her if she wants to go to the range with me to learn how to use it she say something like "nah, I don't really feel like it". Obviously I say "well the gun is going to be inaccessible while I'm gone then", and then she complains about how that's unfair. She told me a story about how she heard a noise in the middle of the night while I was gone and had to call a neighbor to come look around the house with her, and that she really wishes she'd had the gun.
My questions....should I handle this differently? While I value my sister's safety, I feel it's probably more unsafe for her to have a gun and not know how to use it properly than it is for her to not have it at all.
Also, am I being negligent by keeping the guns loaded & under the bed while I'm at home? I recently took an NRA intro pistol course and the instructor said we should always keep the gun in a locked safe all the time unless we need to use it (in case friends come over, etc). I realize I might get flamed for these questions, as they are probably basic gun safety, so I apologize in advance.
Advice appreciated,
LSW