Another vote for Xtreme 100gn RNFP. Shoot very well out of my wife's Sig P238, Ruger LCP, Bersa Thunder. My favorite load is Power Pistol, reduced load.
If you order from Bayou Bullets, be careful. The advertised 380 bullets are .001" smaller than the 9mm bullets. The ones I ordered as 380 were terrible for accuracy, I figured out they weren't large enough for my barrel. They sell the same bullet as both 380 and 9mm, the 9mm is .001" larger. Get the 9mm.